6/22/1019 update He is S and she is A. I you have any questions for one or the other please say who you would like to chat to. We are a open ethical poly couple. Shared couples account to save money. We do play together and apart. Her relationships and playmates are hers and his are his unless it was an agreed upon ahead of time to play as a couple. A currently has a full dance card and no longer plays with others on her own or is looking for relationships. Will at times play with a select few couples and a few events now and then. S would like to still go to parties but now needs a date in order to go, A will join in going to parties from time to time as her schedule allows. Looking for on going playmate and possible long term relationship for S. Preference given for relationships.

My Ideal Person S: Doesn't really have an ideal woman. He likes all body types, hair colors, eye colors, etc. He does tend to lean more towards redheads and curvy women. He goes for personalty looks come second to him. He also loves a woman in pigtails.

A: Doesn't have an ideal man. Beards can be sexy. As for women she tends to lean towards a little curvy that likes her breasts played with. A doesn't really care to give oral to woman but with the right woman she would. She will always finger and use toys on any woman though. She does love to receive oral from either.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
S: I come home from work or something like that. To relax
I start looking at some porn. My wife and her friend come
home and catch me. I then sit and watch my wife get eaten out
by her friend. I eventually join in. <br><br>
A: My husband's birthday gift to me is being dominated
by some other person (female or male) while my husband learns
the ropes so to speak.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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