"We gonna fuck or what?" - Ebby Calvin "Nuke" LaLoosh The sexiest part of the body is the mind, and when it is stimulated it takes the rest of the body on an incredible journey. I am a straight, DDF single guy, a nice guy when I should be and can get down and nasty as well... I am very oral - love to get down there and lick it for hours and have her cum repeatedly - no better feeling in the world :) Love meeting couples who are here for the fun... becoming friends is nice, but there's no expectations about it being more than sex. Have had some fun experiences with couples and hope to add to that. Also, a female who's not wanting a relationship and having to answer to one per, but wants to still enjoy some of the physical aspects of a male/female bonding... a girl who doesn't want a boyfriend but a play pal (OK, I'll use the term, "fuck buddy"). No pressure to stay the night, no pressure to call the next day. Also a "club partner" where we can go together but cum apart :) Been giving AFF another go-round, hoping to actually MEET people for adult fun... seems to be a lot of photos showing stuff and words that are talk that leads to no action. Maybe Nuke LaLoosh is right... Have been attending and enjoying the Second Saturday "meet and greet" gatherings held at La Quinta in Fairfield... These Meet and Greets have eliminated a lot of the BS that goes on exchanging messages that eventually goes nowhere. I've met some great people and have had some wild nights with some couples and singles... but always great to add more people into the circle of fun THIS (AFF and "swinging" in general) IS NOT MY LIFE - to me it's more of an escape from everyday life, a chance to dream and live out all sorts of fun fantasies, and don't want this to change my everyday world or expect it to change yours, just making it a little different and fun for awhile There are face photos in my Network - and if you want to see them just ask (don't want to have them too available, never know which neighbor or co-worker may be in these waters) I do have the ability to travel, so I'm not limited to the NYC area, and sometimes an "out of towner" can provide a different level of discretion that a local individual can't -food for thought.[B][/B][B][/B][COLOR red][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Ideally - a couple where the male is STRAIGHT and the woman is on the thin to average side, trimmed below is great, shaved is better (the better to eat you, my dear)... People who have a voyeuristic and exhibitionist streak in them... people who realize that attitude and desire goes a long way!

Couples who feel comfortable in their relationship and with me being totally aware of my place, which is an invited guest to YOUR fun and respecting all the rules and limitations (and remembering that you are a COUPLE and not be arrogant enough to want to meet the female as a solo)

SIngle females who are looking to explore their sexuality and looking for a "partner in crime" without wanting to become a "boyfriend / girlfriend" couple

REAL PEOPLE who will be courteous enough to reply, even if the answer in "Thanks but no thanks" (a big issue from my previous membership was the "no reply at all" syndrome).

Oh - visiting a swing club is always a fun activity as well

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Beatles, Beach Boys, Smithereens, Squeeze, Jellyfish,
Southside Johnny & The Asbury Jukes

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
a hot summer night, a sexy woman with a light, short dress
on and nothing else, and meeting on one of the benches on
the walkway of the Brooklyn Bridge - and doing anything
and everything as the traffic drives by across the East
River

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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