Easy going thinker, slightly shaggy, often a little late, and always seeking pleasure through simple, genuine connection. Never more present than when giving or receiving pleasure. Correspond with me. Update (for clarity): Answered "bi" instead of "bi-curious" because that curiosity has been settled for a while. Enjoy messing around with guys but only when it happens--which isn't very often. I've been the 3rd party in a few bedrooms (to my great fortune) and to date that is all about four hands properly over-stimulating the missus. So I am what I am--fully formed grown boy--but i'm not really on here looking for men. I love women (as if all of us here don't). I lean toward the assertive end of the spectrum but not without a healthy dose of respect and an intense desire to give at least as much as i get. I tease and love the same in return from women of most shapes/sizes who are secure in their sexual appeal. Not trying to be a total and run around with everyone in the tri-state area, but i'll know what i'm after when i find it and won't settle before hand. There is a whole lot of fun in the looking, as long as expectations align all around. (thanks for reading)

My Ideal Person women.
where to start? describing an ideal new friend has less to do with physical attributes (will get there, though) and more with state of mind, willingness to offer a daring invitation in search of a positive connection. certainty in her sexual appeal (going beyond the physical) and the ability to express her desire are both important. a yearning for soft touches, kisses, licks and nibbles all of which become progressively more firm until we both let go, surrendering together to human nature. that works for me.
of course i have preferences in physical attributes: slender to plump (neither scrawny nor obese) is my desired range of body types. she knows how to primp and dress for a man--especially if she has no intention of letting him right, straight into the bedroom. she values femininity, regardless of her stance on feminism.
soft skin.
perfect blend of applied and natural fragrance.
as long as we're talking ideals, she wants to confess a desire to submit to a strong, confident man.

also:
thrilled to meet happy, adventurous couples and excited by the prospect of helping him coax wild noises from her. i know how to listen and would never disrespect an invitation by overstepping bounds.