We may not be looking for the same things, but life is short. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so I might as well tell you what I am looking for and you can decide. What do we have to lose but a little boredom? If it doesn't work, we can say adios and no hard feelings. I am widowed, re-married, now separated. Currently living in Tulsa. Not to be rude or tell you more than you want to know, but I like to be upfront about what I'm looking for. I love to hug, kiss, carress. Very open minded...It is all good as long as we are both having, fun, but oral sex is still my favorite.Looking for a friend that wants to play.... If you are interested, give me a shout, if not, thanks for your time.