Please say hello. I love emails and IM's. Be honest and open and please don't be shy. I have a great job and life so let's chat and see if we should get together. I am open and kinky but extremely secretive. Fit, sane and honest. In shape and very clean as well as totally discreet. No kooks please. Discreet, honest and very kinky please. I am masculine in daily life but have a secret freaky side...love heels and panties as well as a nice tight butt plug! I would love to find someone sane and discreet in the same boat that I am in. Intelligence is paramount as is secrecy. I am not looking for cheap or anything illegal. Love to take it slow to ensure compatibility. I am getting super comfortable with my attraction to men although it will always remain a secret. I have been watching a bit of gay porn and I am no longer trying to hide it from myself ha ha. Masculine men turn me on; burly bikers, military, construction, police...what can I say?

My Ideal Person 20-80 with secret BF fantasies. Intelligent and intellectual is a necessity. Pics within a year and for Pete's sake, live in a clean home. Sooo many pics posted with a dirty living space!!!!!! Gross!
Please....noooothing illegal, ever past or present. I am looking for someone to trust and not interested in disrupting anything. Looking for a confidant to share with.
Museums, golf and outdoor activities are a plus! I love someone who can hold a conversation as well as keep a secret. Intellectual endeavors as well as exploring the outdoors. Kinky is a plus!!!!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I go into church for a confession. After kneeling down the
priest slides the window open. I explain my bisexual feelings
to him and the priest gives my penance. After the confession
is over we meet outside the church and I am embarrassed but
he calms me down. He invites me into the rectory and sits
me down for a brief discussion. We talked for a bit and he
excused himself to go to the bathroom. When he came back
he was only wearing a robe which showed his beautiful cock........

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Discretion

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
John Holmes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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