I have been in the lifestyle as a single male off and on for over 20 years. I have proven to those that risk yet another meet with a single guy, that we are not all complete jerks and disrespectful louts. There are many of us that get no chance to prove what allowing a gentleman (a rare breed these days though) the pleasure of your company. The sins of one can taint the futures of many! I am a nerd, a scholar, yet rough around the edges construction worker who is capable of talking about many things intelligently yet honestly. I pride myself on trying to get to know others for who they are and appreciate honesty above all. I am in turn brutally honest at times, but you will always know that what I say is true to the best of my knowledge. I have 3 degrees and over a dozen diplomas and certificates in a VERY wide range of subjects, I am artistic, a 30+ year tattooist, a pipefitter by trade still working every day toward retirement. But As for the physical, I am trim build, but all of my hair but going gray gracefully, tend to keep a goatee (also graceful lol), bright blue eyes that get brighter as I smile or laugh, a few scars from keeping that bucket list mostly empty ( each has its own story, ask about a bull or 4 wheelers and ??), but overall I have been told I'm a fairly decent looking guy, definitely not an ogre LOL. I am VAS safe, DD free, several tattoos that you would not see unless shirtless, and a few piercings including a Prince Albert.

My Ideal Person Truly a hard question! We all enjoy our physical encounters, but there is so much more to be found. I am proud to admit that I have several friends, mostly couples, that I have met in this lifestyle. Some of which have never been physical, but became real friends. Others, friends with who I share some awesome times together in and out of the bedrooms, but still great friends. And some who are more occasional lovers sharing what times we get together as purely lustful trysts. One thing all have in common is that we all took the time to meet and see what new things we might find with each other. Not every meeting has become a long term affair, many never sparked and we parted ways with good luck wishes, and many more simply short fiery moments. Yet we never know until we have taken the chance!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Anything with story or good rhythm

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Too many to count!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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