We have been married for 22 years, playing for the past 16. All of our fun so far has been with just her and the guy friends she has had over the years.
Although the play is usually with her and the guy friend in question, I love to watch the fun once in awhile. It doesn't have to be very often. Even a little bit keeps me satisfied. I don't join, just watch. Don't worry, I don't "direct" or make it awkward either. The other guy is fully in charge. I fully understand that both her and the other guy open up more when it is just the two of them and I respect that. Watching or getting pics/videos every now and then is really all I get out of the situation as her husband. That and just some details and knowing she is having fun.
Some may ask why we are even into this type of fun. The reality is that I work basically 7 days a week at some level. She has a very flexible part-time job. We have a very happy marriage and there is nothing wrong on that front. However, she has needs and I realize that I don't/can't fill them all. Whether it be sexual, romantic, or just general friendship, I am fine with her fullfilling some of her extra needs outside of our marriage. There is no drama on our part at all. We have been doing this successfully for 16+ years now and it has worked fine for both of us, let alone the others that were involved. I am happy when she is happy and this has made her happy over the years.
Although she has had some sex-only partners over the years, she has enjoyed it most when there is more to it than just sex. Her ideal person is someone that is nearby to hang out with every now and then, rather than it just being entirely about the sexual aspect. She tends to enjoy the romantic aspect of it for those that have wanted to take it to the bf/gf level. I am not offended by or jealous of that.
She has expanded many of her horizons since we started playing, far more than I ever expected when we started. I would love for her to keep expanding them further. I would love to see her be part of a threeway, whether that be a MFM or MFF. Having her and another guy be part of a couple swap would be amazing also. Anything involving another female would take a bit of gentle persuasion though, since she gets jealous easily when another woman is playing with any guy she is playing with. Hopefully it can happen some day though.
Good luck to everyone on here!