Now living in Philly, PA!!! PLEASE READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE RESPONDING! UPDATED ! ONE WORD and one phrase MESSAGES may BE DELETED WITHOUT REPLY! Say more than hi, hello, or what's up!!! If you're an adult, surely you can speak and write like one. If not, don't expect a reply from me. FRIEND REQUESTS, VISITING my page AND FLIRTING DO NOT SHOW TRUE INTEREST. ONLY A WELL-WRITTEN, SERIOUS MESSAGE WRITTEN BY AN INTELLIGENT PERSON CAN CONVEY INTEREST!!! NON-SMOKERS or discreet, responsible smokers ONLY PLEASE! Gentlemen only!!!! That means men who treat a lady like a lady! 50 and over only! Black, busty, SSBBW 350+, older women too!!! Very sexual, thick, black, intelligent, passionate, friendly female seeks a fun friendship. I'm seeking a fun friendship, dating or a husband only. I would prefer the husband. That does not mean a "booty call type of thing, where we only call for sex. Instead, we call because we are cool and we can also talk about things and hang-out as well as have great sex together, if that should ever happen. Great friendship (platonic) and getting married are my priorities. Sex is not. It's just a beautiful and necessary part of a healthy relationship. Like all people on the planet, I have been played. Life is short! I have no time to play games or for game players. Say what you want and mean it, stick by it, and live it. If sex is what u want, that is cool with me if I am up for that at that time -- say so If you discover you would like to explore the possibility of having more with me after we have known each other for a while, then speak your mind. But lies are unwanted and are also not necessary! Let your yes be yes and your no be no. If you change your mind, have an unexpected challenge, emergency or change of plans, say so. But do not stand me up. That's disrespectful! Communicate!!!! Communication is key in every type of relationship, formal and informal alike. If I text or call you or send you a message, respond. It is just that simple. We all get busy, but a simple text back saying so is appreciated over being ignored any day. Be a considerate human being. Treat others as you would like to be treated. If you are no longer interested, simply say so and you will not be contacted by me again. Be considerate and communicate. That is my number 1 pet peeve. Also, I am a mother, so please know that I can't always drop everything to meet with a person, but if I am interested, I will definitely make myself as available as I can be for the right person or situation.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a MATURE, HONEST, INTELLIGENT, CALM, LAID BACK, personable, down-to-earth, intelligent (Yes, I need to say that more than once.), passionate, open-minded, well-rounded, very sexual and sensual, and articulate person. Ghetto minded thugs need not apply. Overly aggressive men who cuss a lot and physically fight with anyone need not apply. You're an adult. Act like one. TYPICALLY A MAN OVER 45 who is not afraid to be themselves, and who is open to all that the universe may have in store for them. This person should have a plan for their life, but should not be afraid of change or alterations to their life's plan. For the only constant in this life is change. Also, if you are not into conversing, or don't think friendship is important and are just out for sex, do not contact me!!! I'm a listener and a talker, and I desire the same. HONESTY AND OPENESS ARE A MUST! I'm an honest person and I am blunt and to the point. I admire the same in all who I deal with. Please note that I am especially attracted to people of color but am willing to "sample the rainbow".

As always, a purely platonic friendship with anyone, of any age, gender, race, color, or creed is always a welcomed possibility. So feel free to write me if u just want a friend.

]"People enter into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime."]I'm open to all the possibilities that life affords me. Are you ???

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Mint Condition, Trey McLaughlin and SOZ, Boyz II Men, India.Arie, Kindred,
B. McKnight..

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
James Todd Smith Idris Elba Shawn Stockman Nathan Morris Boris Kodjo <br> <br><br>
What do u think happens!!!?

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