I want dates and romance Im looking for the kinda guy that loves buying his woman flowers and showing his affection. I am a Domme, i have regular subs i do all kinds of crazy kinky things with, I am not looking for more. I want a REAL MAN. I want to be pursued. ATTRACTION MATTERS if youre really overweight or not well kept its not going to work If you dont have your shit together and cant take Me out REGULARLY its not going to work Kink will not be part of the dynamic until you win Me over emotionally... UNLESS you are the right type to draw out the submissive in me. If you can do THAT, we will make amazing memories together! Guys... I'm tired of the superficial zero effort msgs. Don't approach me unless you're willing to do the work, I will not do it for you. If I like you, I will match your energy and then some!! I will not invite you over to meet me, ask me out. I will not give you my phone number, ASK ME OUT. Giving me your number is not a clever work around, I won't use it. MAKE A PLAN. ASK ME OUT. If you read all this, I'm typically free mon/tues & dont catch enough sunsets on the beach... I'm not asking for 5 stars or extravagance, I'm asking for the barest minimum effort for the ultimate payout