I'd like to meet women (or male/female couples, just not an individual male) to explore with. I currently have one partner who lives an hour-plus from me. I'm a firm "friendship first" kind of guy in my relationships, and I'm much more about the quality of person I spend time with than the activity we take part in. Intelligence & humor really grab my attention in a person. I'm very easy going & prefer the same in others. I'm also into science, technology, human history, 80s culture, rock/metal music, and just anything I can learn about really. Are far as roles go, I'm kind of trying to find my place... I'm open to exploration. I'm open to swinging, although I'd like to find a poly ltr at this point in life. I'm mostly dom; I enjoy giving spankings & getting a little rough sometimes (hair pulling, choking, biting). Other times I just wanna make romantic love with someone I care about. I'm pretty intrigued with Littles right now. And if you're partnered with a very hung and/or uncut guy, Above all else, respect & consent. (I'm alostsoulwandering at the Y, if you know what I mean) Best wishes to everyone in their current & future relationships.

My Ideal Person Sweet, kind, intelligent, and definitely a kinkster.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've always been much more about giving pleasure than
receiving it. I'd like a woman emasculate
me by forcing me onto my back & riding me to see how fast
she can make me cum. Just completely tear me down while doing
it.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, I like bite, pull hair, spank, and choke.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
With celebrities, it's almost always a physical attraction.
Being with a real partner, I'm more about they are
(trust & respect).

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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