We've been together for over 20 years. Happily married, and both climbing ladders at work so between family and work, free time is sparse. Sex life is amazing and looking for new experiences to build on our chemistry, we love to include toys, roleplaying, and sexy attire (as you can see) to enhance our fantasies. Her: Works hard and plays harder, would like to work out more but no time, gets lots of attention from men (and women) for her figure but her intellect matches her sexiness, loves everything 80s, walks the line of "lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets", submissive in the bedroom, loves to dress sexy. Him: Great sense of humor, smart and witty, always looking to care for others, former D1 athlete, works out religiously, also works hard and plays hard, happy to take control in the bedroom but also wants to watch wife be pleasured. Warning: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have, or do it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person We are looking for fun, smart, and attractive people who like to enjoy the finer pleasures of life (travel, food, etc). We’d like to begin slow, chat and get to know you before progressing to the more fun activities. Wife runs the show and needs to be attracted to the other individual(s) before thinking about swaps with couples or inviting in solo males/ females. (If you have a hot body and can make her laugh, you've unlocked the secret code)

Note to the guys: She'd much rather see a pic of your body than of your...not the way to open a conversation with us.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Wife enjoys being submissive and bdsm play. Some combination
of these would be enjoyable for all involved.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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