>> We are a happily married couple who likes to play with single men now and again. She is Asian/American and 46, although she looks younger, is pretty and sexy and skilled in bed. He is 55 and white. Very secure and straight. We are not into anything painful or humiliating and degrading. We are both fun to hang out with. We never play alone. He is not bi curious. We are into long sensual encounters where she gets to have fun playing with two guys. We do not do this often, but have enough experience to know what we like.

My Ideal Person We are looking for an enthusiastic, open minded, reasonably hung, straight and respectful guy who is seductive, but patient and knows his way around a woman's body. The guy we are looking for is confident (not arrogant) and will know how and when to take charge. With the right guy, she really relaxes and gets naughty. When that happens, we can all play for a very long time. We are also looking for someone who can string sentences together and carry on a decent conversation. Connection is key. We are not looking for an empty experience. We need to be able to hang out and have found that good sex with new friends brings a level of intimacy that leads to interesting conversations and experiences. We prefer younger guys (25 to 35) because they typically have more stamina and less baggage, but will consider older if they are the right fit, very experienced, reliable, and not creepy.