Messaging is horrible on this site. Half the time I can't open messages. Half the time I can't respond. Sometimes i have to log off and log back in. Shits getting beyond annoying. Well, I'm old and she's not. We are busy with life. work, school. No complaints, but it sucks for having adult time. We are not the meet and fuck type. One because it's hard to find time. Secondly, we like to know people a bit before we get naked. A comfort thing I guess. It can sometimes take a minute to find out how screwed up a person is. We're pretty quick to give out a phone number. We like to tx and send pics. Kind of like foreplay for the big event. I know many of you are just so hot and good in bed that we will probably want just you, but.....your really not so... not gonna happen. This is a fun thing for us to do as a couple. We live in BFE so finding a sitter for three little ones is not easy. it's a good drive to just about anywhere. So if you want it now, we're probably not what you want. We have met a number of people here and even had sex with a few of them. If we click, it will happen.

My Ideal Person Not sure what we consider our ideal person other than someone who is clean and free of drama. We are 'bi' friendly. We are here to have fun, not have issues. A good sense of humor, easy going. Honestly, as we sit here and talk about it, just nice , clean people. We have a large age difference so are not really sure what we feel is too old or too young. At this point we have decided on anyone 21 to 55. I am sure there are those outside of this range that would be of our liking but have found this range to have the best possibilities.

Now that we have been on here for a bit we would like to add; must be able to carry on a conversation. Must be willing to let us know a little bit about yourself before we fuck you. We are private and discrete and are not asking for your SSN or anything. But some of you fuckers are just plain creepy. Also, if you read the profile you will see we really need to get to know someone first. We were talking about it recently and perhaps down the road, when our kids are older and we can send them away for the weekend, we can be more meet-fuck-repeat. For now that just doesn't work for us.

We understand that we are going to get more action from the boys. That's a given. And she loves the attention so it's not an issue. But ladies, where are you? We are not perfect by any stretch. Maxim and GQ are not blowing up our phones to put us on the cover. We are clean, educated, fun and where she is the far better looking one, I have my qualities. We like to refer to it as "ruggedly handsome". So please, don't be shy. Please be clean (and we don't just mean of STD's. We mean like you shower regularly}, a little smarts, nice and easy going enough to have fun in all situations.

Hopefully that's not being to picky. I see most of that as what we should all probably be with out much thought or effort. Lets have some sex!!!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, clean

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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