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ThickerThanILook 23 M
3  Articles
Pointers   5/16/2019

Just here for them points


2 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
Saying no thanks, because , as imagined , couples are scarce.. Hurry up and get a gold account   5/13/2019

Nothing ever changes. Are there no real couples , anywhere?


1 Comments, 19 Views, 9 Votes ,1.07 Score
Messaging   4/24/2019

Someone tell me what doing wrong. I message people politely and introduce myself. I ask how they are doing day and offer to send a pic so they can see what i look like or most times just send a face pic. Still only 1 out of maybe 15 reply or even read my message. Any suggestions


6 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
TwanTseX27 33 M
4  Articles
2019 Greetings   4/19/2019

ARE YOU RUDE NICE OR JUST GHOST A PERSON WHEN YOU TELL THEM NO THANKS?


1 Comments, 15 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
rejection   4/8/2019

how do you take rejection?


3 Comments, 40 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
Not wanting to meet   4/8/2019

I have always said honesty is the best policy unless you are cheating. If you make a date after meeting a person and then decide it is not for you, do you ghost them or be honest and say no thanks after more thought i am not looking for what you offer? It sounds so lame via text.


3 Comments, 44 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
points   3/27/2019

points points points points points


1 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Love2Pleazer 47 M
5  Articles
Scammer, fakes and frauds   3/21/2019

What is going here shaking my head? So many boys, scammer profiles and they're so aggressive like wtf!


3 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
psylckr520 40 M
3  Articles
a simple "no thank you"   3/14/2019

A simple "not interested" would be better as opposed to being ignore, but whatevs. <br><br> p.s. this is for points


5 Comments, 38 Views, 18 Votes ,3.67 Score
Txmedic79423 50 M
2  Articles
Why is it so hard?   3/7/2019

I know not everyone is going to want to meet up, or even chat. But why can't people at least be civil and say they're not interested? sure this topic has been discussed ad nauseum, but it's really been burr in my saddle lately.


4 Comments, 28 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
stevetripod 29 M
8  Articles
saying not interested   2/19/2019

Why do people give asshole responses when you say hi?


2 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
xxxmedicxxx 50 M
1  Article
Why is it so hard?   2/18/2019

Why is it so hard for people to just say it?


3 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
A lot of guys on here   2/17/2019

What i dont get is how or why guys hit me up with stuff like-- let me suck your dick and I try to be nice and say not my style and then get pissed. Its making me respond like more of dick that I want, but only way to get left alone.


6 Comments, 42 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
Fogger312 51 M
5  Articles
Be polite?   2/15/2019

Why is it so difficult to say "no thanks" if the person is not interested? It's frustrating enough being rejected, but there's no to completely ignore a request (unless they are harassing you). <br><br> Thoughts?


3 Comments, 22 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;)   2/15/2019

a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all. Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match. I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...


3 Comments, 38 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
Someone Else's F Shack   2/13/2019

This is something that happened several years ago. I started talking to a woman on here and hit it off very well. After some erotic chat and phone conversation, we decided to meet in person. It was very exciting, because we had some great conversation. <br><br> Since I had roommates, I couldn't host easily. She provided me with the option to meet her at her apartment. I agreed. I ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 16 Votes ,2.10 Score
smithjack81 39 M
1  Article
Why is it weird for guys to say "No thanks"   2/3/2019

Why is it weird when a guy turns down a girl? Maybe hes not attracted... girls can do it all the time, but a guy does it and theres something wrong with him.


4 Comments, 32 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
JoshRook7 28 M
4  Articles
Saying No Half-Way   1/29/2019

It really needs to be understood that just because you said "yes" to sex, doesn't mean you're obligated to continue. <br><br> People get uncomfortable. They have second-thoughts, lose interest, or just decide they aren't ready. <br><br> And that's totally okay. <br><br> This especially applies to women, but for everyone out there - you ...


2 Comments, 36 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;)   1/26/2019

a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all. Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match. I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
ttazz316 58 M
8  Articles
are the girls really just looking for sex   1/25/2019

are the girls on this site really just looking for sex and why are their guys on here pretending to be girls


2 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Colby822 41 F
1  Article
A female perspective on saying "No thanks."   1/18/2019

There are so many articles on here about "just tell us you're not interested" and how "ignoring someone is rude." <br><br> As a woman on here, I get a lot of messages and IMs. In fact, I always try to turn off IMs when I first log on because I just don't have the time or ability to reply to every, single message I get. It's not meant to be rude... If I ...


8 Comments, 185 Views, 29 Votes ,5.65 Score
meincovky 47 M
4  Articles
Hello out there   1/14/2019

I get it that free members have limited chats, but once in a while just saying "no thanks" to someone is helpful if you are being messaged first. Does help with the process of not hitting them up again....


3 Comments, 26 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
Taking no for an answer   12/30/2018

Why can’t men jus take no for answer? I myself respect it when a woman says no and I leave her alone. I have heard men and talked to men that say they will not take no for an answer and they will continue to push to get what they want. Men should just respect it when a woman tells them no. How many of you out there agree with this?


3 Comments, 34 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
walkinbanana2 44 M
6  Articles
Watching   12/30/2018

I have to, on a weekly basis, have to turn down fucking a girl with her husband watching. This must be way more common than I thought.


3 Comments, 31 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
luv2pleaseu2019 49 M
1  Article
Working Girls   12/30/2018

Is it just me or are there a lot of women on here lately trying to "sell their wares"? I'm assuming it has a lot to do with the Craigslist getting rid of their adult oriented classifieds section. I could be narrow minded but, I didn't join this site to find a . Hell, if I wanted to pay for sex I would of stayed married. Okay, that may have been a little low. Any way, am I alone ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
How to say 'no' after you meet up   12/30/2018

Hi, Sometimes you chat with someone and really hit it off. Unfortunately, when you meet up you just dont click. What is the nicest way to say no thank you without hurting anyone? thank you.


2 Comments, 44 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
DirtyBoi1423 27 M
2  Articles
yes or f off?   12/14/2018

cant you just say no thank you? instead of telling someone to piss the fuck off and being a rude person. up your game and be respectfull


3 Comments, 22 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
Being pushy   12/8/2018

Why are the single men in here so damn pushy not all but definitely came across a few of them


7 Comments, 68 Views, 28 Votes ,4.78 Score
lookn4fun482 45 M
1  Article
how to say not interested   12/4/2018

i have come across a few that i wasnt interested or they werent interested i dont have a problem saying it but you have some that juust end up disappearing instead of saying there not interested is it that hard for some to actually say it and be truthful


2 Comments, 28 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
points   12/2/2018

doing it for the points points points


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score