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rm_dicknpannies 41 M
2  Articles
Break Up with one's you love.   12/12/2005

Breaking up with someone you love is not easy. It's one of the hardess things to do. The first thing that comes up in your mind is your feelings for this person. Not only that The things you and this person Shared with each other. I am a prime withness. I also have experienced this action in my life. But what Ihave learned is that. It's better to get to know your self more better than ...


1 Comments, 259 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
badduck1 56 M
1  Article
personality or looks   12/11/2005

Choices on dates... <br> a) a ten on looks and in bed, but with a vauge personality and not alot going for her besides those things. <br> b) dynamic personality, good in bed, but average on looks, however motivated and goal driven.


0 Comments, 210 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
A Happier Ending   12/10/2005

I had just hit my prime, had gotten a divorce and was having an affair that I thought was the best thing that ever happened to both of us. Our sex was incredible. He loved sucking and fucking me and I loved sucking and fucking him. I thought about us constantly. When we were together, I had multiple orgasms most every time we made love, but always had at least one. Then, suddenly, he ...


1 Comments, 308 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
rm_tecknohippi 39 M
1  Article
how to end it, by txt or face to face   12/7/2005

When breaking up with someone would you say it’s best to do it face to face or quickly send a txt and run away. Personally I think doing face to face is the decent way at least you don’t leave the other person with loads of questions like if, how and why. What do you all think then!


4 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Ever Heard of Break Up Sex?   12/2/2005

Many emotions are going through both of you when your going through the process of breaking up. If the break up isn't knock down ulgy with objects flying across the room & profanities screaming at each other, there seems to still be a feeling of genuine careing for the other. Breaking up can be frighting for many. Most may just fear the unknown and not like the idea about being out on your ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_stiffsource 46 M
8  Articles
when is enough enough   12/2/2005

I've been with this girl for over 2 yr on and off but whenever we're off she goes out and screws anything walking but then comes back do you think she just likes my sex is why she comes back?


2 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_devaloch 42 M
3  Articles
Yell or just walk away   12/2/2005

HAve u ever had a bad break up with someone?? In your opinion what is the best way to handle a bad breakup?? Is it to rant and rave at the person or to simply just walk away. Keep in mind that it is already a bad breakup before you have to decide. They could be yelling or screaming at you. So what do you do?


3 Comments, 278 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
bigfella626 63 M
2  Articles
FINALIZATION   11/28/2005

People when you break up with someone please finalize it.The worst thing you can do is leave that window of opportunity there.On most occasions when you try relieve the past you only bring more hurt into your life.Or cause hurt to the people you have in your life at the time.


0 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
eroticcyclist 57 M
2  Articles
What hurts is   11/27/2005

The loss. The loss. The loneliness that can follow. Sure sometimes its the sexual void, but that is nothing that can't be easily cured if that is all that is gone for you. It's the emotional pain for me. I'm a man and I don't have a stiff upper lip when I feel pain. I don't think I should either. Beyond that what may be most upsetting is not knowing what happend, what she is basing ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rm_Shinbo82 41 M
3  Articles
good lie   11/26/2005

isnt it great when you break up and your new EX just said lets be friends when the next thing you know she'll just ignore you.


2 Comments, 112 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_amayajo 40 F
4  Articles
Why Is Breaking Up so Hard to Do   11/25/2005

As everyone else on this site has experienced a breakup I felt inclined to bring about mine. The moral of the story is that you should always feel safe in a relationship. I had a very hard relationship my last years of high school and was looking to have a rebound guy(sounds bad I know). Ironically I found it in an old friend who had moved away. Little did I know, he was a bit unstable. He ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
Why can't people be honest about themselves and STDs.   11/25/2005

I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership. I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little bit of) the local male competition I have with men within my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB. <br> After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing to a few select women, my ...


0 Comments, 532 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
Y can't u let go   11/24/2005

Y is it so hard for some people to let go once u have said it is over????????


0 Comments, 130 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
She had me wrapped around her finger   11/24/2005

WHY DOES SHE KEEP MAKING MY LIFE MISERABLE. SHE MOVED ON WITH OTHERS BUT CAN'T LET ME. WHEN IS IT REALLY OVER?


0 Comments, 122 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
this sucks   11/23/2005

im only doing this so i can get some points so dont waste ur time reading what i already worte and if u did then ur an idiot...shit im supprised ur still reading this seriously, im only doing this to get points


1 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
themisskrissy 57 F
4  Articles
The Yellow Blanket   11/21/2005

Creamy butter yellow fleece. (did he say it was made out of recycled pop bottles?) A blanket stitch of royal blue all around the perimeter, so warm and soft. <br> The blanket has not been washed for a while. Not since before the last time she took it away on a trip. She won’t wash it now. <br> All she feels she has left of him is wrapped up in the memories of the ...


1 Comments, 109 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
slimnjuicy4eva 124 M
2  Articles
Can't let go   11/21/2005

My boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs but since last month things haven't been going really well he doesn't want to have sex most of the time that i do and he wasn't like this before i think he's fu**ing someone else and he's start lying about his whereabouts so i told him to stop visiting me and stop calling me but i miss him so much when he don't so as soon as he call and ask if ...


3 Comments, 151 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_BBWRSEXY21 40 F
2  Articles
getting back   11/19/2005

Dont u just hate it when u find out ur boyfriend has ben cheating on u? well girls dont take it laying down!! do something about, go find his worst enemy, the person he cant stand the most. And then have wild and dirty sex with him!! He will be so mad lol, and u get revenge and great sex, lol!! have fun and be safe


1 Comments, 177 Views, 16 Votes ,1.66 Score
Friend or FOE?   11/18/2005

Hello again, I would like to know some opinions on breaking up and being friends afterwards please. <br> I have found myself in this situation twice now in the past 3 yrs where i break up with a girl and she at first refuses to accept it and then later wants to remain part of my life as a friend. <br> Being a soft hearted kind of bloke i tend to oblige, but it seems like ...


3 Comments, 122 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
cock4uky2005 43 M
1  Article
ITS NOT HARD TO DO   11/18/2005

many ways to do it, phone, email IM . What do you think is best? I prefer to do it in person but im old fashion in that way


0 Comments, 69 Views, 3 Votes
rm_babycasper33 53 M
3  Articles
Friends   11/16/2005

when u break up should u stay friends


1 Comments, 104 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
why so hard   11/15/2005

why is it so hard to get out and get back into the game after you have been through a bad break up? is it that i'm afraid of getting hurt?


1 Comments, 85 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
Only the Lonely Know   11/13/2005

We met in college, married, had , sent them off to college and then started swinging. When our first was barely a year old, we had a 3some with a guy we met. It was fun. He was well endowed also, and she enjoyed being, as she put it "wore out". About 3 days later, with my blessings, she fucked him again. Then we never did anything else but reminese and talk about how good it had been. ...


1 Comments, 367 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
?   11/12/2005

when u break up with some 1 do u say we can still b friends


1 Comments, 229 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
ThickWitIt1980 44 F
9  Articles
"The Breaks!"   11/7/2005

I am a 25 year old female who has only had one real relationship in my life, I met him when I was 20 he was working at his parents restaurant and I was taking a lunch break from taking my drivers test at the DMV across the street. He was cleaning all the tables around me hundreds of times till he finally asked me out and I said YES!!! After chatting him up on and off all that day I returned ...


4 Comments, 195 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Is sex important?   11/6/2005

I really dont have a very horny girlfriend, but she is so great in every other way. For this reason i am seeking out this site to meet someone for just sex. I wonder how many other people are in this position


0 Comments, 153 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
I thought I had the power of goodbye!   11/4/2005

I managed to get out of both my long term relationships but I find my current one of only 4 months difficult to let go. With the earlier two, love was apparent almost immediately but with this one, neither of us have even uttered the words. The problems we are experiencing are on-going and started just 2 months into the relationship. All the signs tell me this will never work. I've tried to ...


4 Comments, 224 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_93065_guy 41 M
2  Articles
6 years gone...   11/3/2005

Just broke up after 6 years...boy it sucks...I wonder if its a bad thing to screw my ex...any thoughts??


0 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
   2005-10-31

Those are the words that my wife of 15yrs told me just a month ago.I`ve been lied to for at least the last year of our marriage, so it seemed even more of a coincedence that she left me dangling for about a month and finaaly made her decision about our future just 3 days after all the bills were paid for the month...neat huh? I also am going through the greiving process and it`s hard to understand this whole thing. She has told mutual friends that she wished I was a cheater or abusive or a gambler, a bad Dad, or a drunk, so she would at least have a good reason besides the fact that she "Fell out of Love" I did unfortunately work 3 jobs in order to keep up with our bills and one of the jobs involved working as a traveling musician, but only working about 50 to 60 dates a year. The problem was she had grown used to me being gone and decided that she was tired of taking care of everything when I was away.It caused resentment and the resentment caused the falling out of love. My 10 yr old daughter, I`m afraid will be the one who will suffer the most, as her world has unexpectedly been turned upside down.I feel like I let her down by being away and causing her Mom to fall out of love. So in closing, be honest with your mate, and live your life together like it might be your last together....because one way or another someday it will be.


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Singing_pleasure 38 M
10  Articles
breaking up   11/2/2005

i cant stand breaking up thats the worst part of the relationship...lol


1 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
soccergodguti 45 M
5  Articles
Is there any easy (moral & acceptable way) to break up?   11/2/2005

if there is can someone let me know or share experiences.. or is it always hard after long term relationships?


1 Comments, 94 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Why Does Love Have To Hurt   11/1/2005

You go through your life being abused and hurt and then you find the "Mr. Right". Instantly you know that he is everything that you have wanted and your "Knight In Shining Armor" You devote your whole life to him and forsake any other men and you think that you are the one and only one for him. Then you learn that you are not the one and only because he has another woman. You cry and ...


3 Comments, 286 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a group...   10/31/2005

Dear HornyWife members; <br> How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group, where the membership requirements are. That you must be willing to go with a current group member or the group’s moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...


1 Comments, 225 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
WetThang69 113 F
8  Articles
Bipolar Man?   10/30/2005

Met a wonderful man here on HornyWife. Thought things were great. Neither of us were looking for commitment (I thought), but a series of new, non-judgemental friends. That was all I ever wanted. <br> I was a little surprised, how speedily things advanced, friendship-wise. Particularily since he claimed strong feelings for me, far before I would admit to anything. Guess I belong ...


2 Comments, 231 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
queenbtch01 42 F
1  Article
broke up   10/29/2005

most of you know me as ihornyru72 that account was deleted by my ex boyfriend and that is what caused the break up we was in an open relationship you know he can play with others and i can play with others and if we liked a couple we swap or 3 somes whatever but now i find myself very pissed at him he had no reason to delete my account any suggestions for revenge " my new account ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
6love2lickclit9 44 M
1  Article
dont do it this way   10/28/2005

i told my wife that i was cheating on her while i was tripping so my mood kept on swinging and cause a four hour in depth discription of how i cheated and where and everything . i dont suggest it


0 Comments, 218 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Things may seem bleak   10/27/2005

Things may seem bleak now but you never know what the future may hold for you and your ex. You may get back together someday. You may not. Either way it is better to let go of a faltering relationship while there is still some caring left between the two of you. If you play it out to the bitter end and leave your ex no choice but to hate you to get rid of you, you close the door to the ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Nobody ever deserves to be hurt.   10/27/2005

Nobody ever deserves to be hurt. Your ex does not deserve to be hurt because you are hurting. Your ex's new love interest (if one even exists) does not deserve to be hurt just because you feel jealous. You do not deserve to be hurt, even if you acted badly and caused the break up. Breaking up hurts, but it doesn't have to be made worse by holding a grudge or drowning yourself in a pool of ...


1 Comments, 207 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
wyntersknight 39 M
6  Articles
When do I tell her   10/24/2005

I have realized I love my wife...but I am no longer IN LOVE with her. Do I tell her before or after the holidays???? and How do I go about telling her? She is already in counseling for depression, being negative, and pessimistic....but on meds. IS there a decent way to get it across??


2 Comments, 255 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Acting out in anger is never good for anybody   10/23/2005

Acting out in anger is never good for anybody. After being broken up with don't spread mean or spiteful rumors. Don't betray former confidences by telling old secrets to others. If another person was involved in your break up resist the urge to slam them behind their back. Acting vicious only makes you look bad and any satisfaction you may feel will be short lived. In the end this sort of ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
is all right to cry   10/19/2005

It is all right to cry, get mad and feel hurt when you are dumped. These are normal natural feelings. Just be sure that you let your feelings out in a safe place among friends or family. Do not make your ex the target of your feelings, even if they have done something to deserve your outrage. The sooner you let go of the other person, the sooner the healing can begin.


0 Comments, 203 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Being broken up with does not mean that there is something wrong with you   10/17/2005

Being broken up with does not mean that there is something wrong with you; it just means that there is something that is not working in the relationship. Try not to take the rejection too personally. Remember that lots of great people have had failed relationships - the fact that the relationships failed says nothing about their value as a person. The fact that your relationship failed ...


1 Comments, 105 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Resist this urge!!!!!!!   10/16/2005

Nobody likes to hurt another person, especially somebody they have been close to, and it is often very easy to guilt trip somebody into staying with you when they are trying to end things. Resist this urge! When you use guilt as a way to stop a break up you not only cheat yourself out of having a good and true relationship, you foster resentment in the other person which could lead to ...


0 Comments, 403 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_scarzs 45 F
3  Articles
He is Here too, but we are over it...   10/15/2005

We broke up, our relationship is over.That what he told me in his email and in his blog.And i am his Xgirlfriend. Yet I am no more his so call co-owner in some groups that we have build years together.Yet this is not the point. The thing is We are still looking at each other's work, words or profiles each time we are in the internet or in that certain website.But deep inside, i can feel ...


7 Comments, 370 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
A Question for Men   10/12/2005

Ladies, I don't mean to cut you out of this one, but none of us really knows the answer. I met a man here 4 yrs. ago. I wasn't looking for love, hell I wasn't even looking for a conventional date, just sex. Well we hit if off immediately. The sex was mind blowing, our intelligence levels matched. We had fun, fun, fun, almost all of the time but when it was time to be serious, we were. ...


4 Comments, 615 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
b1   10/12/2005

More often than not, breaking up is as hard on the person ending the relationship as it is on the person being broken up with - don't assume just because a person is breaking up with you means that they no longer care about you, caring about you and wanting a relationship with you are not one and the same.


0 Comments, 292 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_GregTheTrue 42 M
2  Articles
Ways To Hold On   10/10/2005

First off let me state that I have no professional training in the way of relationships or the human psyche. My knowledge comes strictly from experience. While it’s not backed by a degree it is genuine. My advice may come across as rambling and while I understand you will not take everything I have to say with you, I do hope that you walk away with one or two new ideas to help your ...


3 Comments, 258 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
break up?   10/7/2005

How do you break up with someone you really love for no good reason? Any suggestions?


3 Comments, 354 Views, 6 Votes
HornyHawk7725 53 M
2  Articles
Never Again   10/2/2005

I met my last girlfriend in a 12-step recovery meeting in February of 2003. I asked her out and she immediately gave me her phone number before the meeting was over. Laster that afternoon I called her and we went to a movie and then took a drive in the mountains. We drove up to about 14, 000 feet in the dark in a snowstorm. My vehicle was new at the time and was Christened properly that ...


3 Comments, 219 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
sgfscorionking 47 M
1  Article
To Screw or not To Screw???   9/29/2005

So I broke up with my last girlfriend about a year ago but we are great Friends. The question is this, the sex is incredible (and I'm not just saying that because I've had MORE than my fair share) and we have somehow fell into the "Friends with befits zone"! Now don't get me wrong, that is all good, but I think she is substituting the sex for the past relationship. Do you think it's ...


4 Comments, 349 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
You Won't Believe This One!   9/27/2005

When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24, 2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to... <br> break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever "NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY." This is an idea that was created by an international group called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...


4 Comments, 443 Views, 18 Votes ,2.85 Score
rm_turner11000 37 M
2  Articles
TELL THE TRUTH!   9/25/2005

How can people say that people should be let down easily? People need to be let down harshly. Its easier just to be told "I dont like" you then to be told "you're really nice but...." where the "but" can be followed by any one of hundreds of possibilities. The absolute worst is when they claim "we can still be friends" because 99% of the time they wont actually remain friends with you ...


2 Comments, 150 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!!   9/10/2005

Hello all, <br> Here's a bit of a break-up/ rant-n-rave all bundled into one. <br> I've been politely, but firmly asked to apologize for being me or it's off... <br> "Well, don't let the door hit you in the ass." was my direct response. <br> Over the past year he's said the following: <br> "I fall for the really screwed up girls." (Apparently, ...


2 Comments, 264 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
rm_surecumthing 52 M
2  Articles
More than once.   9/9/2005

I've recently, in the last couple of years anyway had a relationship with a girl that was young and not really the most stable person. You know the issues. But she sure was fun. So I put up with some of the crap that you normally do in a relationship to make it work and then some. We we're together for about 2 years and in that time we had split up about 4 times with the 4th being the last ...


1 Comments, 251 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
What's a BITCH 2 do?   9/4/2005

Hey, I have a question, if u meet a girl that is cool people 2 be around but u r not just into her in a sexual way and u tell her that "we can be cool friends and hang out or whatever but as 4 sex between us that shit is not going 2 happen b/c im not feeling u like that" ain't that kinda straight 2 the fucking point? Well I guess not because I meet this girl through another friend of mine ...


2 Comments, 119 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
rm_BnKnNC 42 C
7  Articles
Easiest Way   9/1/2005

I've never had a problem breaking off a relationship with someone. Or for that matter, having someone break one off with me. <br> I've always tried to be honest about what I exoect from the relationship from the beginning. That way, there really is no surprise if it doesn't work out.


0 Comments, 236 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Tongueminator00 61 M
1  Article
How do you convince yourself there's something else to move onto?   9/1/2005

Ive recently broken up from a 2 yr relationship, well actually i was dumped for her ex which she had always admitted she couldnt cut from her life as a friend. To say I was "in love" with this woman doesnt seem to sum up the enormity of my feelings for her, I literally worshipped her and for a while we had it great. You know how you have a mental check list of the things you'd like in your ...


8 Comments, 189 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
2hot4u2handlenow 39 F
2  Articles
breaking up is so easy to do   8/30/2005

As I think back on my last relationship, I realized leaving him was the best thing to do. He was rude, critical, and all together mean at all times. He was 37 me 21 so age diff made a big prob. He was retired from the military. 16 years of it made him very precise about everything and when things did not go his way he huffed and puffed about it. It went to the extreme about everything not ...


4 Comments, 160 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
A Slow Tumble Down The Hill !   8/26/2005

I'v known this guy for almost all my life.Went to primary school with him but we never had anything going.He was like three grade ahead of me. We were just pals, neighbours for years. They moved. We didnt see for over ten years. He went to high school in some other city and i was still in this city. We met again in university. he had started university someplace else and problems with his ...


2 Comments, 312 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_mmidt 51 M
1  Article
moving on   8/23/2005

what does it take to keep your mind from think about that past relationship .You know u did the right thing but hard to move on to something new . What do you think?


0 Comments, 154 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_Disciple316 48 C
17  Articles
Another Sad, Sad Break Up Story   8/22/2005

Kristine Slaterback, AKA Kristine Allen and Jeff Kujat are no more. My heart was broken again for a second time by the same woman Auagust 15th, 2005. We first met Iin April of '99 through a silly little Yahoo personal ad...Sweet Teddybear Seeks Friend To Cuddle, said the headline. She said she liked teddybears and the rest is history. It was love at first sight, never in my life have I met ...


1 Comments, 181 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
needitnow200585 30 M
1  Article
How does one move on   8/20/2005

Ok i was with my g/f for 6 months known eachother for 9 months. Anyway we broke up like 3 weeks ago and im trying to figure out how to get over her. I mean i have tried cutting her out completely she just wont let me, i tried just being friends but i get jealous, how can i move on if all i think about is her. I mean i did love her so how can i get over her.


4 Comments, 291 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
hornydallasguy19 38 M
10  Articles
how do u break up?   8/17/2005

i always have been up front wit it n at first try to work it out until there is no more you can do


1 Comments, 318 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
xxx69slut 54 F
2  Articles
closure   8/17/2005

Some people think that breaking up is something that only one of the couple has to decide on. They seem to think that they can just make that decision and then ignore the other person. That's a very childish attitude. If you want to break up, at least give the other person closure. Tell them straight and make it clear but give them closure, otherwise you're storing up trouble.


0 Comments, 633 Views, 32 Votes ,6.80 Score
hornylilboy88 28 M
2  Articles
sucks   8/13/2005

breaking up sucks ass with a passion!!!!!!! especially wen u had the best person ever!!!


2 Comments, 179 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
HOT_WET_BI 31 C
6  Articles
love hurts   8/13/2005

i love my hubby but hes gon out of town too much we have grown apart what to do ??? so how to tell him well i took out a add in his fav magazine it sai: to honey .... with all your time at work and out of town i regret to inform you that i do not love u anymore you should recave divorce papers at the door in just a few hrs. to make sure he fornd this in the magazine i high lighted in ...


2 Comments, 223 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
rm_jazzhead05 53 M
9  Articles
Just say it   8/12/2005

I had a difficult situation to face a couple of years back when I knew I had to say something to someone to clear up a problem that had been weighing on my mind for far too long. It wasn't a relationship breakup, but the princple is the same. A friend of mine asked me one evening if I'd had that talk which I'd been putting off. I told him I hadn't done it that day because it wasn't a ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
justme121578 45 M
4  Articles
What is the proper etiquette for breaking up with a   8/11/2005

How do you break up with someone who was a friend with benefits when the only reason you were a friend in the first place was purely sexual? You have no desire to hang out with this person on a completely platonic level and when you 2 first became involved you made it crystal clear that this was about sex & not a mutual bond shared between 2 people.


3 Comments, 296 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Breaking up is tough..but being USED is worse!   8/11/2005

My boyfriend left a week ago. We were together for 8 yrs. I always thought it was "one-sided", me being the one that was always trying to hold it all together. Continually appeasing him so as not to cause any friction in the relationship. He continued to lose job after job. It would take him a long time to begin looking for the next job. Which meant I was the sole provider in most of the ...


2 Comments, 157 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
Does anyone feel this same way?   8/10/2005

After years of long distance the parting of ways is turning out to be just as hard or harder than the effort it took to stay together after years of liveing on different seaboards. Thinking that it may be fateful that we should have been together regardless of the distance between us, I wonder if it was meant to be, and if it really is....will it prove itself after we have spent some time ...


2 Comments, 88 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Why so nice?   8/8/2005

I was dating a girl for the better part of 3 years when I found out that the reason I continued dating her in the first place was a complete lie. We had dated for a couple of weeks and I decided that she really wasn't "the one" for me and broke it off with her. Then she tells me she's pregnant. So after long consideration I thought I'd be a man and take care of my responsiblities. 3 months ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
What happened to "Friends with benefits"   8/6/2005

I recently got re-acquainted with an old friend. We knew each other 10 years ago and partied together. She recently moved back into town after breaking up with her long-time boyfriend. She has 2 , 10 and 5. We had never had a sexual relationship before but we ended up going home together after the bar one night. It was decided by both of us that we would have a casual sex fling, suggested ...


1 Comments, 148 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Befuddled...   8/5/2005

Me and 'Dawn' (we'll call her) had a confrontation a little over five weeks ago about splitting up. Over the last 3-4 years (we've been married 7 1/2 now) we started sharing less with each other. A lot less. She keeps things to herself and doesn't tell me how she is really feeling and I say things I don't really mean when I do get angry and have been in the bad habit and not coming ...


1 Comments, 174 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_Kinowa4 37 M
2  Articles
The Lighter Side   8/1/2005

I just went to Athens this weekend, I came back... felt like shit, then today... it clicked, Im over Mari... and tomorrow will be a better day. Today is a brighter day than the day before and each on just adds on upon the good from the day before. <br> Yes it takes a while for good things to happen, and it takes an instant for bad things to happen. <br> And yes it ...


2 Comments, 74 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_SexxyLegs79 45 F
2  Articles
WHY, WHY, WHY???   7/31/2005

Me and my boyfriend broke up quite a while ago! It took me a realy long p telling me he loves me, misses me, blah, blah! Ok so I almost fall for it when I find out he has a girlfriend!!time to get over him (I was devestated) Now he has been popping u Why keep playing wih my emotions, and hurting me! Cause he knows it does???


2 Comments, 348 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
why do they do that?   7/30/2005

Why when you get to know someone you think pretty well, they turn around and start calling you drunk at 2:00 in the morning every day. Why can't they just tell you they are that way before you like them. Do people actually put up with that.


0 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
This is the worse pain in the world   7/28/2005

This has got to be the worse pain in the world. It gets harder to deal with as we grow older. I remember feeling this as a . Now in my 40's it is impossible to deal with. And I realize why too. Being mature, your feelings are much clearer than when you were young, and you put them all into a relationship. <br> Anway here is my story. I have been living in a loveless marriage for ...


2 Comments, 306 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
breaking up after 5 years   7/27/2005

I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 and a half years bout 2 1/2 months ago got boring and always the same she never wanted to try new things in general. think we just grew apart


0 Comments, 120 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
newsquirter 64 F
2  Articles
Why would a guy leave?   7/24/2005

I had awonderful relationship with a guy, we said I love you to each other quite freely. He taught me about this squirting thing. We had many things in common, besides sex. We went on mini-vacations, We spent time at his home and mine as well. We seldom argued, never fought! And then one day he said he had grown apart from me and wanted to still be friends, but it was over. Anybody have a ...


7 Comments, 541 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
Last time with Cherie.   7/23/2005

Some years ago while I was in the service I had a relationship with this older woman, a slender little blonde named Cherie. I was 26 and she was 39. We had screwed each others brains out for over 9 months. Things had gotten a little dull between us. Normally these would have easy to fix but a month or so before hand Cherie had wanted to do something a little wild and crazy. So, we invited ...


1 Comments, 230 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
fadasa4321 50 F
2  Articles
im tired   7/20/2005

im getting tired of my man i want to explore new things what should i do?


4 Comments, 245 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
The silent treatment   7/17/2005

Poeple become very selfish at the end of a relationship. Yes you agree to be friends, and yes for a time that would be difficult, but why do women then nearly opt for the silent treatment as an option. I think that this just causes more friction which quickly turns an amicable breakup into a bad one. <br> What do you think?


2 Comments, 226 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_melcum2 61 M
3  Articles
by myself   7/16/2005

my ex girl friend dumped me also.she said i was not tough enough because i would not abuse her.also some other issues.so she runs off with some harley biker or bad boy.is that shallow or what.nice guys do finish last-dead last.


1 Comments, 74 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
arliss007 50 M
3  Articles
Breaking up is a bitch, therefore..   7/15/2005

You have a few options. You can be like me and stall it out. Wait to be posed with thew question and then make a decision, or you can just honestly take it in stride. <br> Cardinal rule number 1: people do what people want to do. <br> There's nothing you can do. There would'nt be any scandal if people thought about others.. The sad truth is, relationships are ...


1 Comments, 146 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
The Real Reason Breaking Up Is So Hard For Men!   7/15/2005

I’m gonna keep it real. 75% of the rage, grief and jealousy that a man experiences when he breaks up with his woman - is due to the fact that he is losing all rights to the pussy. Better known as the “Coochie.” <br> Yeah she may be smart, funny and a great cook. But the bottom line is it’s “your pussy.” <br> And just the mere ...


2 Comments, 290 Views, 24 Votes ,5.06 Score
dealer0900 37 M
5  Articles
Going on seperate ways   7/12/2005

Breaking up with someone you really love is actually a matter that you have to think very carefully, or you have to perform as you play in Hamlet. First of all, you have to take it easy.Tell her slowly that although you really like her, you two can't work it out. She'd ask why? You have to be completely honest and plain in here. Just name the reason without blaming it onto her. Your last ...


1 Comments, 138 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
marieisBBW 59 F
4  Articles
GETING YOUR CAKE & EATING IT TOO!   7/12/2005

Have you ever found the person that just makes you cream at the sound of there voice? Have you ever just had that person touch you and oh my you cum before you knew it? I had this happen to me. In August of 2004 here on HornyWife I met a man that just sent me to heaven and back physically and sexually. I had been married for 19 yrs and he had been married for 9. We both were in the mist of ...


1 Comments, 280 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
darqmachine 48 M
16  Articles
HOW TO MOVE ON.   7/11/2005

I'll tell you now. Who ever said breaking up with a woman, was easy. Belive me, it isn't or for those of who's feelings are really genuine and true. On this site I have had some pretty good times and I'm having more almost every day. But when one doesn't always go as planned you just have to learn how to break up the right way. Here are a few ways to do it. <br> 1) Once you ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Charger162000 45 M
1  Article
Sometimes things change   7/10/2005

The biggest problem is generally one person in the relationship grows or matures and the other doesn't. When that happens, it is usually the one that did the growing that ends up getting bored and needing to move on.


1 Comments, 138 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_freakme67 53 M
2  Articles
Like Buses In A Big City...There'll Be Another By In 5 Minutes   7/9/2005

I'm a bit of a romantic and devote myself to the one I'm with so it does hurt when it comes to breaking up. I have come to believe that self-preservation is more important than dwelling on what "could have been" and practice the clean-break method. If I run into any of my ex-fuck buckets when I'm out and about, I see them as a previous acquaintence...a bus I rode to get here. Unless they ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
habruleca 52 M
3  Articles
never grew up   7/8/2005

Do not not hate when you have a great girl frined and you are both in University. but after both have graduated she never grows out of the Schol Girl. She works at the mall with ppl still in university, like to party with them and So . Then she can not understand why You no longer want to be with her. Well Grow up Little girl Life goes on


0 Comments, 67 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
Abercrombie532 36 M
2  Articles
The best way to remain friends   7/5/2005

When the time comes when two people can no longer date each other i think its important to not break up on bad terms. Many ex's can turn out to be great friends.


1 Comments, 196 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
rm_swiftone2313 42 M
4  Articles
hi   7/4/2005

HI i just broke up with my gf. How often do you think i should make any attempts to get back with her. I dont want to bother her and get in her space.


1 Comments, 219 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Did i wait to long?   7/2/2005

I am a bi female who became involved with another woman in this site. Things were going really good, till i moved closer.Since i moved closer to her i found that she never had time to spare for me.I kept calling and e mailing to see when she had time but i got the same answer, NO time.This went on for 2 months.I felt that i was being dumped, so i approached her again about spending time and ...


2 Comments, 244 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Yumee6969 38 M
8  Articles
What is the best way   6/29/2005

I often find that it is really hard to break up because you dont want to hurt the other person. Should it be done in person or over the phone or some other impersonel way?


4 Comments, 111 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
2EZ2CUNX2C 65 M
1  Article
A Gift Given out of Love Can Still Destroy   6/29/2005

After 20 years of marriage where cheating and deception became common place, a person longs for simplicity in a love blessed with sincerity and honesty. Looking back on that first failed marriage accepting responsibility for my actions and drawing on all of the lessons learned, I hoped for a greater chance at meeting with success the next time around. Having learned to cope ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
dynamitesneon 41 M
10  Articles
Recent and horrible   6/28/2005

I made a tragic mistake in my life; I dated a girl that'd never had a real boyfriend before. Worse then that, we started to love each other. I was her first time, for more then just the obvious. Needless to say, she didn't understand what she had (grass is always greener) and made a fool of herself by dumping me. I know it's self serving, but it's true; I did everything for her, gave ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
MorpheuS19832 40 M
2  Articles
I just couldn't believe it...   6/28/2005

She was my first love... I met her when I was 16 and we were together for 4 years. She was everything I needed and though I was too young I was thinkng about her seriously... As in all relationships we had our fightings sometimes but mostly we were great tigethr. All our friends couldn't believe that in that age our relationship lasted that long. And then it came the time for me to go and ...


1 Comments, 128 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
madenitaly69 50 M
6  Articles
Hard to do!   6/26/2005

It always sucks on both sides when a relationship crumbles.I believe everything happens for a reason-whatever your reason is-be true to your feelings and just be honest with your partner.We'll all heal in time-it just takes of all our strenghts to do it the right way!


0 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Christiano28 47 M
4  Articles
After breaking up   6/26/2005

Have you noticed that women need less time than men in order to find a new partner after breaking up?Is that so or is it just my imagination?


3 Comments, 193 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
okiecouple4fun4 55 C
10  Articles
what to do?   6/25/2005

How do you deal with a marriage or relationship break up that has been going on for many many years? Do you every get over it?


2 Comments, 155 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
skakid422 41 M
2  Articles
How does one end a long relationship?   6/25/2005

This is the question going through my mind the last couple of weeks. I have been with my girl friend a little over 3 years, and I don't see this going anywhere. I see us drifting apart, and I am not very interesting in the relationship anymore. <br> I know I want to end things, but I don't know how to go about doing that. I don't really want to hurt her, but I don't really see a ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Blackmanwish3 57 M
3  Articles
My heart aches now about her !   6/25/2005

I seperated from my girlfriend since about 9 month now, on the 25 may last month i had my birthday, on the day she used her girlfriend to called me to the very place she was.so getting there her girlfriend congratulated me for my birthday, this moment she come over to me and she quickly hold me and gave me a kiss with the word happy birthday.But I told her I don愒 like so thing., and i ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Its hard to do indeed...   6/22/2005

I had a relationship with a young lady for about 3 months, hardly long term, but she dumped me by text... that's one cold lady! <br> Not sure I could do that myself, guess it takes a special kind of person


5 Comments, 96 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
2good2bebad4u2 50 F
1  Article
Dating someone from HornyWife   6/21/2005

Take my advice it is hard to have a relationship with someone u meet off of HornyWife. I had one that went belly up within a couple of months after meeting him from this site. U are better off laying around with whoever u can find or meet. I do and I love it.


2 Comments, 274 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
My heart still aches..   6/20/2005

I thought I had met the love of my life. I was with him for three years. Everytime he walked in the room, my heart would race.. sometimes for his looks, but more and more because I wasn't sure what kind of mood he was going to be in. What was going to piss him off and make him go off on me. I did everything I could do to make him happy, yet, his demands became more and more. I walked ...


4 Comments, 305 Views, 16 Votes ,6.07 Score
THUGLUV2006 52 M
1  Article
INTERRACIAL LOVE!!   6/18/2005

WHY DON'T PEOPLE JUST ACCEPT THAT DIFFERENT RACE PEOPLE CAN FALL IN LOVE???


5 Comments, 190 Views, 15 Votes ,4.51 Score
rm_sinsual65 58 M
5  Articles
rebound sex   6/15/2005

Do you find that some sex with someone new helps to assuage the pain soon after a break up? I'm curious how responses from men or women will differ or if they will be relatively similar on the average.


4 Comments, 236 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
I don't know myself anymore   6/15/2005

I don't really think I can call this an article, it's more of a question. A really nice guy has been after me for a while. We've slept together a few times, and that was also great. He recently told me he wanted more, and then I had a kind of out-of-body experience where I heard myself coming out with the usual stuff about not being ready for a relationship, and that it wasn't him but me. I ...


0 Comments, 258 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
longhairstud05 50 M
9  Articles
Getting it over with.   6/14/2005

Remember you lived before this person & you will after this person so get it over with. be like nike "just do it".


0 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_Ladiebambam 40 F
2  Articles
hey   6/12/2005

i hate breaking up cause u have 2 thing to do get over the other person and move on and that can be very hard at times


0 Comments, 74 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Im such a lair   6/11/2005

I have to say something to get it off my chest. I am married and have a girlfriend. My wife found out now shes treating me like gold. But I still tell my girlfriend I love her, my wife doesnt want me to have any contact with her at all. But I still do. My problem is that Im always lieing to her like I do my wife now. But she finds out. I give her credit she is a lot smarter ...


2 Comments, 189 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
The art of breaking up   6/9/2005

Is there every a right way to break up? I've got a friend who to save on the hassle of the crying and emotional tirade of a suppossed future partner, decided to move state and break up by sms! There's always the lie i'm seeing someone else when u just think she/he is just plain boring or the relationship isn't going anywhere.


1 Comments, 68 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
natenaughtynate 46 M
10  Articles
don't write letters   6/7/2005

if your not 15 have the balls to break up with someone to there face.....unless the person is a stalker and you have to run away!


1 Comments, 60 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
whay is it that when you treat a girl like shit, they worship you and when your nice to others,they   6/6/2005

whay is it that when you treat a girl like shit, they worship you and when your nice to others, they dont appreciate it?


1 Comments, 126 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
jasonisnice 47 M
1  Article
Breaking Up!!   6/6/2005

Don't do it. It sucks


1 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_sexymachien 38 M
9  Articles
My best friend   6/5/2005

My best friend and I dated a year ago. We had the healthiest sex life either of us have ever had. We were madly in love and marriage was on both of our minds. Suddenly she started seeing a ex boyfriend behind my back. This guy abused her body and mind. We broke up because she cheated on me and now we became best friends about two months after with out talking during the two months. ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
rm_rocafella535 44 F
1  Article
Game over   6/5/2005

I have been with this guy for two years he is also 3 years younger than I. We were best friends at first and now he just wants to break up constantly saying its me with no explanation. He says he doesn't want a relationship but he asked for it knowing i was looking for long-term. He has been a father to my 2 year old and now he wants to end it all to fuck with little girls not grown ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
leaving   6/2/2005

I have been with a woman for 13 years and things are no were the way thay should be but I don't want to be lonley I know I need to get out but how?


0 Comments, 88 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
hottmistress 53 F
7  Articles
The best way to get over a serious break up:   5/31/2005

Treat it like the flu and take special care in getting over that "someone" as if you are getting over an illness. <br> Heartbreak, to me, is one of the worst painful circumstances and events in life - so much so that I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. So, I believe it's best to take special care of yourself when going through it. <br> From my personal experience: ...


6 Comments, 165 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
GabrielNash23 40 M
1  Article
Co-Dependants   5/26/2005

I was wondering if anybody had any experiance with going about a divorce with a co-dependant spouse?!? I have been married for 3 years and wish to get out of the relationship. We have taken about it once or twice with the same result of her trying to kill herself. Can anyone help me out there with some advice or suggestions?


2 Comments, 103 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rockman009 37 M
2  Articles
breaking up   5/25/2005

after u break up dont get so upset. just find the first good looking girl and bang the shit out of her and u will feel better.


0 Comments, 103 Views, 11 Votes ,1.30 Score
safetymike1000 46 M
4  Articles
Divorce Stages: Phase 2: The Reclusion   5/24/2005

Though I did enjoy my promiscuous phase to some extent, the feelings I had during it caused me great pain on the inside. Eating away at me like a ferocious nympho nibbling a freshly shorn pussy. Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore, and became ashamed of my behavior. So much so that I went into reclusion. Several women that I knew, I was still talking to, and I shut them out. ...


1 Comments, 98 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
i cant get it right   5/23/2005

i've found many reasons and many ways to break things off but i've never found the right way of doing thing's. every time i come up with the same results.... hard feelings.


1 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rnbwDragon 47 M
7  Articles
Not a good thing   5/22/2005

well ok where to start, i spent time so long in long term relationships.lol..well its heart breakin an never the easiest thing to cope with.But the worst thing is if they are taken away from you.Yeah well it happens she was 24 me 22, she had been tryin to loose weight for sometime, but for some resason she could never get rid of it.i went to work came home normal day, until nighttime.. ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
looking4oral5 57 M
0  Articles
When trying for too long just makes it worse.   5/22/2005

I was together with this woman for 4 years. When we met she was one person, yet as soon as I put a roof over her and her 's heads, she became somebody entirely different. She had me, had my yet I was the one bringing in all the money, doing all the housework, and taking care of the . Problem was, I loved her and didn't want to see their lives destroyed. I kept it up for three years ...


0 Comments, 139 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
rockman009 37 M
2  Articles
taking a break   5/18/2005

is it ok to have sex with another woman if your gf sasid that we should take a break. Or will it come back at you in the end?


0 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_heighhardwon 45 M
2  Articles
waa...waa!!!   5/18/2005

If two people arent compatable it's probly because there is not enough compromise between them or they are just not ment to be. In this case most who can be honest with themselves will just see it as it is and hopefully remain friends.


1 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Delete and Reboot for Dummies   5/18/2005

After being in a relationship for many years, you grow attached to that person in many ways. Emotionally, Physically, and spiritually. Now once that long term relationship is over and both parties know that there's no chance for reconciliation at this time or the near future. Still the emomtions continue running. <br> People say that time heals all wounds. For some, that time ...


1 Comments, 130 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
wildnikkie 37 F
5  Articles
feeling horny and alone   5/17/2005

My boyfriend and I had recently broken up and I of course was feeling horny and alone. I decided to go out for a few drinks with a few of my girlfriends. It had been a few months since I'd been fucked and I craved cock. I woke up thinking about it and went to bed craving it. <br> I decided that tonight was the night. I needed to get fucked and I was determined to find the lucky ...


4 Comments, 547 Views, 30 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Ride2002423 50 F
2  Articles
Ending an engagement   5/15/2005

What is the best way to end a engagement? And how do you make then understand that its not cause of another man? Broken Heart In TX


1 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
sugarbaby197373 51 F
1  Article
Is it over yet?   5/13/2005

Could someone tell me when a guy says, " its over"......like i thought you said it was over , cool, Now is it over, but keeps contacting you, whats the next move star command?lol


2 Comments, 172 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
Boyfriend has .. broken leg   5/6/2005

I dated this guy on and off for like 5 years. He loved his motorcycle and crashed while driving it.This only gets better--i am not cruel mind you--just realistic.He comes home from the hospital with a cast and moaning for me to do everything for him, help him with getting in and out of the fucking shower, bring his food to him, you get the point.Yes, i felt sorry for him, but he was using ...


0 Comments, 238 Views, 17 Votes ,3.27 Score
rm_SexGoddes1 45 F
1  Article
Why that my heart is devided into 2?   5/4/2005

I know I'm not as pretty as the girls out there but I'm sure I'm so attractive in everybodies eyes if i'm in front of them already. I have 2 boyfriend at present, the first one is a businessman who have his own company but he was separated with his wife and the other guy is a simple guy whose divorced but willing to marry me. I love them both, but what will I do? The biggest problem with ...


1 Comments, 328 Views, 18 Votes ,5.85 Score
rm_Wompuzzcat2 52 M
3  Articles
?   4/30/2005

iS THERE A GOOD WAY TO BREAK UP AFTER SEVERAL YEARS TOGETHER?


1 Comments, 99 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
rm_reisaree 42 F
11  Articles
Time To Leave   4/29/2005

After 20 years of marraige I am tired. Tired of fighting, tired of worrying, tired of yelling, tired of trying. Everyday I dread going home after work, because I know I will say or do the wrong thing and the whole night is fucked. Do we still love each other? I suppose, at least we say that we do. But there is no passion, no life in this marraige. We sleep in seperate rooms except for when ...


7 Comments, 490 Views, 29 Votes ,5.05 Score
rm_Disciple316 48 C
17  Articles
TRUST ME...DON'T EVER GIVE UP!!!   4/26/2005

I know all too well the pain and heartache that can result from a breakup. I know what it is like to totally give your heart, your soul completely to a woman and have it all end. I feel the pain of evey guy that has ever lost someone that they truly loved , and honestly thought that they were meant to be with. This goes out to all of you guys. Hang in there, because I got some good news for ...


1 Comments, 135 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
jacob3224 58 M
6  Articles
do i tell or not   4/25/2005

i meet a girl 5 years ago in an airport in detroit, we started to date long distance, then two years ago she moved to connetticut, about 90 miles door to door , no problem, most fridays id go up and we would go out for the weekend, ,, last october -she says work is very busy , i want more space and time for myself - dont come over to much , , no problem i say, i dont see or hear from her ...


1 Comments, 154 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
tonystrip75 48 M
3  Articles
What to Do   4/21/2005

I split up with my partner of 4 yrs and cant get over her is there something i can do to get her out of my mind i really find it hard to be with someone else?


0 Comments, 139 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
nightdragon1984 38 M
1  Article
why dose this always happen   4/18/2005

ok people. I have had one major brake up in my life and i am going thru the 2 one now. i have a questing for the girls. Why is it that when a guy finds you and he treats you so good that you always brake his heart? my first brake up was almost one year ago. i was dating this girl who i thought was the love of my life. i did what ever i could to make her happy we were together for almost 3 ...


2 Comments, 138 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Why men take the easy way out?   4/17/2005

I hate it when a man stops calling or will not give you a reason why he does not want to be with you any more. Tell me do you think it is fair when the lady is good to him and he JUST STOP?


4 Comments, 257 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
rm_cruiser452 39 M
3  Articles
Rebound Guy   4/16/2005

I've been the rebound guy 3 times in my life now and it sucked each and every time. Ya know, where the girl has a really bad bf and she breaks up with him and starts hanging out with you a lot more. Before you know it the both of you get involved and you fall in love with her because you really think she's great and have so much in common. Then about a month or two later, she finds another ...


1 Comments, 89 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
hard breakup   4/15/2005

Any advice for a graceful way to break up with someone that still wants to be with you?


0 Comments, 98 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Breakup   4/12/2005

I have just gone through an 8 mth r/s and been dumped..how long you ppl reckon I should take to get over it..or has it been too long already?? (3wks)


1 Comments, 92 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
yunghotcupl24 44,1938 C
6  Articles
How to   4/12/2005

I think the easiest way to break up and get over it the quickest is to break it off clean and quickly. Sorry if this seems cold but its the truth if you try to stay friends with them off the bat then they stay in your life and will double the time it takes to get over them plus they may try in some way to get back together or mess up any new relationship you have.


0 Comments, 170 Views, 18 Votes ,2.72 Score
rm_4plznunow 59 M
2  Articles
Does it get easier?   4/10/2005

Have had hard times in the past even if the relationship was a short one. Can't seem to let go for a while and leave the whole thing behind me right away. I think generally if you can get over it right away then you haven't invested anything of your self in the relationship and you will not have long lasting ones anyway


0 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_capt_hartley 45 M
4  Articles
Can't we all get along.   4/10/2005

About six months ago my exgirlfriend and I broke up. We were in a relationship for almost 3 years. We are still very good friends, but lately it seems that she is trying to climb back in my bed. She says she doesn't want to get back together, just be friends with benefits. Don't get me wrong the sex was amazing, she just gets a little clingy or needy afterwards. I have been honest with ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_Ride2002423 50 F
2  Articles
How do you break up with someone......   4/9/2005

How do you break up with someone you really love and care about? When all his actions are taking you down and hurting you and your life and the people around you.


2 Comments, 285 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
You numb bitch...   4/8/2005

I bled sincerely upon your cold unanswered doorstep A soft reminder of the knife you kept so clean Revoking memories that your soul destroyed with silence The words long gone now, but the tears can still be seen A touch and a glance A thought and a kiss You sold me your lifetime for a moment of bliss I rode your wild horses too broken to run As you hiked up your clouds and ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
No Sex and No Play Makes Jim Universal Go Crazy   4/6/2005

About a year ago I got together with my current girlfriend. She smart, beautiful, showed an interest in so many things I was into. At the time I was in a bad spot in my life and I fell head over heels for her. During our time together she really helped me through a lot of problems I was having and now my life is the best its been since I can remember. <br> The problem is, my ...


2 Comments, 99 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
justcerious 59 F
1  Article
A good woman waistn away   4/3/2005

Hi im in the middle of a breakup rite now and im finding its the hardest thing i ever had to do, i never had any problem walking away from a bad relationship b4, why now, why cant i just walk away. I lost everything i ever had almost 2yrs ago becouse of this man, my buisness, trk, property, horses and my self esteem, and after i lost it all he left me stranded at a trk stop with nothing, ...


2 Comments, 317 Views, 18 Votes ,3.40 Score
FreeAgain21 60 F
8  Articles
Dazed and Confused   4/2/2005

I recently filed for divorce. Basically, my husband lost interest in having sex with me, and our sex life became nonexistent. I figured my husband was bored with our sex life, and needed more stimuli. I love sex, and it seemed the harder I tried to get him to mix things up, or try something new, the more he pulled away from me. I have always been more sexually active than my husband. After ...


3 Comments, 261 Views, 16 Votes ,3.86 Score
WHY ME   4/2/2005

YES I CANT STOP IT BUT I WILL WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT.... I DONT WANT TO CRY BUT TEARS STILL ROLL DOWN MY CHEEK. IF THIS IS NOT LOVE WHAT ELSE CAN IT BE... WHY WOULD SOMEONE LOVE U THIS MUCH ONLY 2 SAY ITS OVER. WHY DID LOVE EVER EXIST...?


0 Comments, 74 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
Mrdnice0 45 M
1  Article
ITS NOT AS HARD AS IT SOUND   3/30/2005

JUST FOCUS ON WHATS NEXT.


0 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_shileaux 34 F
20  Articles
He wont be coming back.   3/27/2005

Many times throughout my life the fates have seen fit to smile down upon me. But just as many times they have chosen to point and laugh and laugh and laugh! <br> It seems, every time I think I've somehow cheated the lines of chaos -- the lines that say nothing is ever really as good as it seems, it comes right back and bites me in the butt, and not in a sensual sort of way! ...


1 Comments, 149 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
The Ex Files   3/27/2005

He's the "one" I used to think. No longer my love but yet still the one I love.....He's my Ex and I hate him, I mean it, I hate the guy, he makes me so MAD. No one makes me that MAD, not even my mother! <br> I know he hates me too. But, then I see him and fireworks light the sky, the world stops spinning, and nothing matters but him...again....he looks at me with that lost love ...


2 Comments, 180 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
Gently   3/26/2005

Communication in both of your long-term needs should be vital in breaking up with someone. You have to let them know that you've thoroughly enjoyed the time you've spent with them in the past (even if you didn't) and look forward to being friends with them in the future (even if you won't). In the long term they'll look back and see you for a nice and compassionate person even if you ...


2 Comments, 218 Views, 20 Votes ,1.98 Score
why is it so hard   3/26/2005

Breaking up can be hard....but why? some of us really love each other, but cannot live with each other...please tell me why


0 Comments, 122 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Am I right or wrong?   3/25/2005

I've been dating a woman for 3 years. I knew when we started dating that she's a virgin. But on our 3rd date we went to the bar and she came home with me and we showered and fooled around a little. I went down on her and she seemed to like it. Since then we've fooled around whenever she gets drunk, but when she's sober, she wants to wait for marriage. When I try to get her to talk, she's ...


3 Comments, 178 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
devi_ous 41,1937 C
4  Articles
why do people break up   3/23/2005

there are many reasons people break up but what I want to know is how do you guys get along with your ex after you break up?


1 Comments, 122 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
when do I move on?   3/23/2005

I just recently got out of a 9 1/2 year relationship. I want to move on but feel it is too soon, how long should I wait?


7 Comments, 338 Views, 19 Votes ,3.26 Score
What's the girl's problem?   3/23/2005

well, for the last 6 months, I've been in a relationship. We had been having sex since day one of it, through the girl's actual insistance. I was surprized at it, but hell, I wasn't about to complain about getting good sex! Come to find out, the entire relationship, she cheats on me! This is after she gets rid of me without saying a word, just one week, bam, no talking. I ask her why, and ...


1 Comments, 116 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_fcfighter12 39 M
5  Articles
whats the best way   3/20/2005

ive been going out with this girl for a while now and she says shes in love with me and kinda the only reason im still there is i dont want to hurt her. Whats the best way if there is one at going about ending this?


1 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
why   3/20/2005

i don't understand how ppl can break up because what about all the times u shared with them how could u just forget


0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_cardiff_jay 49 M
2  Articles
Communicating with other Potentials   3/20/2005

I met someone from HornyWife, we even felt a little love together, it was nice, even though it was a fair old distance between us, and we could only see each other at weekends, we made a good go at it, and it was good. We became what was known as exclusive. <br> But then, after our first meeting, she went straight back onto the message boards and was asking details about a group meet ...


2 Comments, 187 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
NEWnAZ 51 C
9  Articles
What to do......   3/19/2005

I have a friend who I think is a drama queen and she goes out with guys and when things turn bad she wants me to take her side even though some of the time she is the one at fault and starts just making stuff up about the guy and wants me to say it true. I am tired of all the drama and I don't want to hurt her feelings but I can't keep up with the stuff she keeps doing.


0 Comments, 40 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
infiniteturbo 38 M
1  Article
What did i do wrong?If anything?   3/17/2005

My ex left me awhile back but a few weeks before breaking up she said she wanted to have a break wasnt sure what she meant but we talked less and gave eachother more space basically. but a few weeks later she decided she didnt want to be together. we talked a little on the phone after that maybe 5 times max, and we also wrote emails to eachother every now and then but eventually all ...


1 Comments, 138 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
I don't want to be alone!   3/17/2005

I am sorry I don't have a picture! How do I break up with my boyfriend, of 8 months? I love him, but I know he is not good for me. He drinks too much ( I only found out recently that he has been hiding this from me ). He thinks everything should revolve around him. He says cruel things to me. I have tried to be very patient with him because I know he has had a hard life. All my patience ...


0 Comments, 177 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
ITS NOT JUST THE WORDS   3/12/2005

Its easier to say its over and turn ur back on that someone u have loved for so long. but at nite when u close ur eyes to sleep and u just can't remove the image of him or her from ur thought. thats when the meaning of ur choice of words hit u hard on the face....its not just the words that hurt them but the way they watch u turn ur back on them breaks them the more. I do know what it ...


1 Comments, 129 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
thebomb2112 55 M
7  Articles
checked in the heartbreak hotel   3/8/2005

I just lost who Id thought was my love of my life, and I truely can say I am so empty in my heart that I cant even think straight. Now if that ant love than I dont know what love is... Anyways I met this girl from here (AAF) aprox. six month ago and I am being honest I thought I found the ladie who I have been searching for my whole life. I was in heaven, so I thought. Everything was ...


0 Comments, 154 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
curiouscat4848 76 M
9  Articles
What to do   3/7/2005

Being straight forward and honest when it comes breaking up is fine when both parties agree. It becomes a problem if one doesnt want to let go. If youve ever been in a relationship and you have feelings for the other you want to avoid hurting them. Then emotions take over. Hurtful things are said and hurtful promises are made. I dont know of any way to avoid this but Im open to suggestions.


0 Comments, 139 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
An interesting question   3/7/2005

I have never had a bad break up, so I still have pretty good relationships with my ex-boyfriends/girlfriends. Do any of you still maintain friendships with the ex?


1 Comments, 137 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
purring_mouse 31 F
1  Article
My break up   3/7/2005

Sorry about the length but I have to vent…. <br> At the nice age of 18 I met how I thought was the man of my dreams. The man that took my breath away, my virginity, and then my freedom. He was 28 at the time, and I thought the world of him. Stupid me. We dated for three years exactly. He introduced me to the life of S&M. I really grew to love the life stile. The ...


1 Comments, 214 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
Don't know what to do...   3/6/2005

Ok just posted something in another topic about this. Anyways i found the guy of my dreams about 2 years ago, we are so much alike. We chatted for about 9 months each night, told each other our deepest secrets, b ecame each others best friend. Unfortunately he was with another friend of mine. Well he told me he loved me, that he always would. This has been on my mind for the longest, ...


6 Comments, 350 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
why do feelings change   3/5/2005

i dated this girl for 3 years and all of the sudden she broke it off with the only reason of things felt different and that she doesnt feel the same way about me that she used to..now a few months prior to this she even proposed to me..and a month before she ended it she was still in love wiht me and wanted to spend her life with me...now shes not sure if she ever wants to get back together ...


1 Comments, 164 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
wildnsexy01 59 F
1  Article
Fear of member - please help!   3/5/2005

I am hoping someone can give me some advice. I have been e-mailing through HornyWife and IMing through yahoo with a member of HornyWife. We haven't met yet, but I'm a little afraid of this guy. Not physically, but he has proven himself to be somewhat of a lunatic so I don't trust that he wouldn't do or say something to try and harm me professionally. I haven't given him too many specifics about myself, ...


1 Comments, 98 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
YankMyDoodle69 60 M
1  Article
Ending an HornyWife relationship   3/4/2005

Ever hook up with someone through HornyWife? Once you had gotten your fill of that person, did you find it difficult to end the relationship? Or, did you want to continue the relationship even after it was fairly obvious that the other person wasn't interested anymore? <br> Well, I've been in both situations and I think it's harder to be the person trying to break free of the other ...


4 Comments, 257 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
Has anyone solved the mystery of the disappearing man?   3/4/2005

Recently I went through a difficult seperation but we had been on the edge for a long time now and no regrets. <br> But I met a guy on HornyWife and got hooked. In the beginning he kept emailing me and calling me on the phone, more than I could ever ask for. I did not want to be so involved because of my pending divorce. I wanted time to myself sort things out but he talked me into ...


3 Comments, 218 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
half truths or straight out lies?   2/25/2005

breaking up is hard! I met my b/f a year ago, i let him move in straight away.(i knew him before as he lived across the road)aprox 4months later he beat the shit out of me and yes i took him back.thing otherwise were great sex is fantastic. then a few weeks before xmas he tried again but i had the upper hand this time and threw him out(with a fat lip). we didnt see or speak to each other ...


3 Comments, 229 Views, 31 Votes ,2.57 Score
rm_hotbtweenlgs 68 C
24  Articles
When you know he is slipping away...   2/25/2005

When You Know "HE" is Slipping Away <br> <br> 10 Questions To Ask Yourself about the relationship... <br> 1) Are you making all the phone calls to the other person? 2) Does he tell you the truth invariably? 3) Have you been "stood up" without a reasonable cause? 4) Do you fear he is slipping away, & is that causing you to "grab and hold"? 5) Are ...


2 Comments, 411 Views, 37 Votes ,2.90 Score
rm_jaco321 38 M
1  Article
one sided relationships   2/23/2005

I was in a one sided relationship for 5 years my girlfriend was not interested in what I wanted to do or my feelings. I had a nightmare as I did not want to splite up as I was in love with her and she did not seem bothered if she seen me or not. It was hard to split up[ as part of me thinks she might have changed. Anyone go any veiws on this subject ???


3 Comments, 174 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
The Best Way   2/22/2005

Wats the best way to break up with someone??? Any good methods


0 Comments, 137 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_20NWILD 46 M
3  Articles
Ladies first   2/18/2005

In past relationships, I have found it very difficult to break up when I know it's over. I am a good guy, and I don't like hurting other people's feelings, so I usually try to let the female do the breaking up. Does anyone feel that this is a good or bad idea?


2 Comments, 130 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
rm_fcfighter12 39 M
5  Articles
Best way to break up   2/18/2005

so ive been going out with this girl for 3 months and weve kinda drifted apart i mean i still love her alot but shes got alot going on in her life right now and we dont get to spend alot of time together which sucks cause i love her alot but ive gotten to the point where i just want to kind've be done with it.i as just wanderin what anyone would do in my place?


0 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
What should I do?   2/16/2005

I went out with a girl for 4 years. We were in love, and when we broke up it ruined my life. I was a big piece of shit until almost 2 years later, I started dating this girl I knew from college. She made me feel great...as great as I had with my girlfriend before. Well about a month goes by and she tells me that right before we had started dating, she was with this guy and she had gotten ...


1 Comments, 161 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Just get it over?   2/13/2005

all aspects of our relationships, permanent or temporary, what is wrong with being honest? We have to use "handles" because society requires us to hide our identities. In writing our profiles, do we generally describe who we really are? I doubt it, there's always some inflated ego involved, it's human nature! Would you REALLY respond, IF everyone gave a "true" description of themselves? Be ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
EX-BF found on HornyWife   2/6/2005

Alright, the beginning. I was with this guy for alm9ost three years. We broke up in September, here it is, the month of feb. I stumbled across his profile long ago. I know it's him, and all I want to do is say hi, but afraid. I still (no joke) find myself having dreams about him. Don't know what do. However, in November, he contacted me, crying to me and saying how much he missed me ...


5 Comments, 526 Views, 30 Votes ,3.44 Score
Can you love again?   2/5/2005

My girlfriend of about a year broke up with me on Halloween. We talked and tried to be friends. In December she told me she didnt love me anymore. I became suicidal. We tried talking again and recently I found out she fucked a guy within weeks of us breaking up. How can I move on cause she is all I think about. I still love her deeply and think I always will. Any help will be very ...


5 Comments, 205 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_NoResolution 38 M
1  Article
Ex girlfriend question   2/5/2005

So my ex girlfriend broke with me at the beginning of january. I've been trying to deal with it for some time now. We've been hanging out all the time and talking for hours on end on the phone, and then she asks me if we can cuddle, but that she doesn't want to make out. So I said sure, because I havn't had any kind of embrace for a month. We've done this twice now, and last night she ...


2 Comments, 148 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
luvs2eatpussy56 68 M
7  Articles
Why is it so hard   1/30/2005

Why does it always seem that breaking up is so difficult. My first wife was the most abusive bitch that I've ever known. She was a drug addict that totally ruined my life. She beat me and even tried to kill me. Yet it took me 2 years to get her out of my mind. I couldn't believe that I missed her that much. I should of been happy that she was gone.


0 Comments, 108 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
ex bf problems   1/29/2005

my ex boyfriend was really abusive and now i love the guy im with but because of my past i get very upset emotionally very easily and this makes him feel that he is making me sad, he is not but when i tell him this he doent understand, what do you think i should do?


3 Comments, 177 Views, 17 Votes ,3.27 Score
Not again   1/29/2005

Things never seem to easy in the romance arena, at least not for me. I was married for thirty years until one night when I came home from work my wife announced that she wanted me to leave. I never did find out why because every time I asked she had a differnt reason. <br> About a year later I met a woman that I had always found attractive, but never did pursue it because I was ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
1HammerSwinger 54 F
1  Article
Having a hard time with it either way.   1/29/2005

I have been dating someone for almost 6 years. I love him with all my heart, but... He is arrogant and obstanant sometimes and lately we kept fighting. I resently broke up with him. I was determined in my reasons and conviction. I said to myself that I didn't want to be at 10 years with the same problems which he refused to see let a lone communicate with me to resolve. He finally realized ...


1 Comments, 368 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
MissxHate 37 F
1  Article
Should've known....   1/28/2005

I just ended a long relationship that I'd been in w/ a guy who worshiped the ground I walked on and wanted to spend every second w/ me which got kinda old but then he started to accuse me of cheating on him. Well.......we saw eachother every single day we'd been dating except two days....TWO. And on those two days we weren't together, he slept w/ his ex. how pathetic is that? he couldn't ...


6 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
kandieapplered04 36 F
3  Articles
to keep him or not   1/27/2005

a young girl meets this atractive older guy gets to know him and start to like him but then finds out he is much older than he led to believe. now she is torn, her family is already skeptical at the age thought he was and he is a little clingy. but she likes him alot but there is this cuter younger guy who is interested and believes in trust...ummmm.. to keep him or not to keep him, that is ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Leave them alone   1/26/2005

There comes a time when you may break up with that significant other. Please, make it easier on everyone and just leave them alone after the fact. More problems arise when you keep contacting them for whatever reason. Leave your friends and family out of it, they don't care and will probably make things worse.


2 Comments, 137 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
Do I stay or do I go?   1/23/2005

I recently found out that my boyfriend of four years had cheated on me last year. I found their emails back and forth to each other. It was him telling her how much he missed her and he wouldn't get to have any fun today because he wouldn't be able to see her. He claims it lasted for a short time and nothing happened between them. He says he realized what he wanted, that was me, and ...


6 Comments, 303 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
rm_JCBR27 30 M
2  Articles
thing's you dont wanna do   1/23/2005

if you're going to break up with ANYBODY, you certainly dont want to either insult them or do something that will hurt them badly. No matter how bad that person was to you, you'll always know that you did as best you could. It just wasn't meant to be.


1 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
best break up   1/21/2005

we quarel and told each other to go our way...but suddenly she take off her cloths and i cant resist with a huge hard on....so she suck my cock and we did 69.....we had sex 6 times that nite and still be frens and fuck each other now and then.....


2 Comments, 238 Views, 19 Votes ,2.07 Score
flat wife-bit_h!!!   1/20/2005

I "helped" my best male friend.Sure I knew stuff about her, I was his closest friend.She was not just hairy, flat, unclean, but nasty as shit.She was a man's worst nightmare.NOTHING he did was ever up to her standards.He came to me frequently, sometimes in tears, sometimes angry.Finally, he called it quits and came to my house.I opened the door to this guy and he embraced me-very tightly.I ...


0 Comments, 254 Views, 24 Votes ,3.36 Score
why??why???why????why???   1/19/2005

Why do you want to leave me? Ain't I sensitive enuff to your fucking needs? Uh? Don't I tell you, most of the time, when I'm getting ready to cum? Don't I throw you a fucking towel to clean up with? Geez and after all that, you're leaving me?! I gave you a goddamn dildo for Christmas, what more do you want? Okay, okay I do you out to my poker buddies sometimes, but I thought you liked ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 16 Votes ,0.48 Score
WHY CRY?   1/19/2005

WHY STAY THE NITE WHEN U KNOW BY SUN LIGHT U WILL BE GONE...WHY STAY IN AN AFFAIR IN THE NAME OF SEX......I DID LOVE HIM...I DID GIVE MY BEST AND EVEN MORE THAN MY BEST...GUESS I REALLY THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE BUT IT ENDED AND WE COULDN'T TAKE THE PAIN....AT FIRST WE ACTED LIKE IT WASN'T PAIN FULL THEN LATER THE PAIN BECAME CLEAR EVERYONE COULD SEE IT IN OUR SMILES...WE HAD TIMES TOGETHER ...


1 Comments, 157 Views, 23 Votes ,4.18 Score
how do u keep a relationship going   1/18/2005

i have dated alot over the years. but i feel head over heals for this girl. so we dated for a year and half for her to say we need a break and than a week later her kissing her best friend and jumping in the sack with him. than her cry back to me after he left her and now things are good but i find a message from him say i need head on her cell phone what up with that.


0 Comments, 114 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
Wail and scream when cornered....   1/18/2005

So your girl caught you in the big one. You told her that you were at church, while you were really at the strip club for LapDancing for Tsunami Relief night. She finally realized that that stain on your pants was not holy water. What now? What do you do? I find that if you start wailing and screaming and fall in the floor, that this will distract her long enough for you to get the Hell out ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 14 Votes ,2.02 Score
she loves me but...   1/18/2005

we started dating almost 3 years ago and it was great...i knew she was the one and she said she couldnt wait to spend the rest of her life with me..now all of the sudden she says that its not the same and when we kiss it doesnt feel the same and something doesnt feel right...this happened all of the sudden..it was only like a month ago when she still wanted to spend her life with me and now ...


2 Comments, 156 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
Never be afraid....   1/17/2005

Never be afraid of just running out of the house/apartment/condo/trailer. If things get too hinky and too melodramatic, just drop your head, take a deep breath, and then run like Hell. There's no shame in that. Run for the fucking hills. (One side note: if you do live in a trailer, you might want to serpentine when you run, because you know Betty Sue has a gun aimed right at your ass). ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_davidperry61 43 M
4  Articles
The Game   1/17/2005

As an expert of choosing the wrong girls I guess I will take the time to spout a little nonsense at you. I suppose you probably don't want to hear or do anything I'm about to propose but in the end you'll find it works out the best. If your considering breaking up there should be a reason right? ok asked and answered but what about those times when your not really sure what that reason is, ...


3 Comments, 133 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
find an outlet.....   1/16/2005

When breaking up, the most important thing is to find an outlet for your anger. Oh yeah!!! Because if you don't then that beast will eat you alive. It will turn you into a monster. It will kill your soul. If you don't deal directly and completely with your anger, it will come back and poison every subsequent relationship. Deal with it, do not ignore it. Now is not the time to be macho.


1 Comments, 54 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
knew_byrd 37 F
5  Articles
Has Honesty Died??   1/16/2005

If you are going to break up with someone at least have the decency to be honest about it, i mean i don't think that is to much to ask for. My boyfriend dumbed me saying "i want to focus more of my grades then a girlfriend right now" and I bought it. But two weeks after we broke up i see him at a restuarnt celebrating his six month anniversery with a girl who goes to his school. What was ...


4 Comments, 193 Views, 32 Votes ,3.52 Score
Lusty love   1/16/2005

You see her(mistress), sexy as hell. You fuck within minutes of seeing each other.Your girlfriend does not know.You love the mistress, you like your girlfriend.You think girlfriend cooks etc, mistress takes care of you! Keep them both, without them knowing.


2 Comments, 233 Views, 17 Votes ,3.69 Score
rm_jedikia69 43 M
10  Articles
makin it stick   1/14/2005

I am having some measure of difficulty in getting through to my ex wife that my decision to divorce is really not reversable, there is nothing there anymore , other than a good friendship. Am I alone in this or does it happen alot?


3 Comments, 76 Views, 15 Votes ,1.91 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
when to end things   1/14/2005

when to end a relationship depends on a few things, but if you think the relationship is not going well, the longer you wait to see if things are going to get better, the harder it is to break up with that person. If you feel that you are no longer interested in that person, and you don't think things will get better, end it sooner rather than later. If the person is abusive to you, end it ...


1 Comments, 187 Views, 40 Votes ,3.88 Score
just do it...   1/14/2005

Just do it, goddammit. Use a fucking stilleto and not a dull butter knife. Make the cut sharp and clean and swift. Why drag it out, why watch with glee while I bleed in the fucking snow? You got no fucking joy while we were together, why are you getting so much joy now? What is it about my pain that excites you? Makes you fucking wet. Just do it. Fucking do it!


0 Comments, 95 Views, 17 Votes ,1.85 Score
ian_liam59 64 M
0  Articles
Lonelyness   1/13/2005

Why is it me that always ends up with a broken heart. Yes thats right i'm a man, my first wife left me with my two young daughters some 14 years ago. <br> I met a lady who after living together for 5 years we decided to tie the knot. Seven years later in the middle of the night while i was sleeping she got up and left off with another man. <br> For me that was ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 22 Votes ,5.65 Score
C.B   1/13/2005

Things are said between two people, games are played, emotions are tammpered with, just make sure you are on the right page, before you over step the boundry, and loose someone very special to you.......Maby even someone you were falling in love with.SORRY.you know how you are....I will regret this 4ever


1 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
girl4us2playwith 33 C
2  Articles
Just do it   1/13/2005

I think when breaking up you just have to do it. Do it and get it over with. You'll be bored with what you have if you're holding on to something thats going nowhere. Stop being childish and be honest.


2 Comments, 100 Views, 23 Votes ,3.36 Score
rm_ALfiy2004 32 M
2  Articles
Out Growing someone   1/9/2005

I want to Thank eveyone on HornyWife. I found alot of support from this HornyWife community on my first artical so i thought i would post a second one about the same relationship. I've been with my GF for 3 years and I feel that im out growing her too fast. In fact ive already out grown all of my friends, except one or two close ones. I have huge dreams and ambitions that i want achieve and it ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_fireshot3 46 M
1  Article
closure   1/7/2005

Well we were together for allmost 3 and a half years. I can honestly say that 90% percent of the relationship was really good. we both started using meth a lil bit, i started to sling it for a while also. I have to say this i never cheated on her EVER!! well anyway with the latenight phone calls and me running around till the we hour`s of the morning had gottin old for her. she gave ...


1 Comments, 151 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
willingin2004 46 M
1  Article
where to go and what to do   1/7/2005

One morning my girlfriend of 2 years woke up and told me that she wanted to move out. That she was not happy with who she had become and that she hated being dependent on me. I love her so much, and can see that it is something that she had to do because she was truly not happy, but she tells me that she loves me and misses me. How do I go around getting her back? We had so many awesome ...


6 Comments, 257 Views, 20 Votes ,3.89 Score
Should i break up with her?   1/6/2005

I have been dating this girl for over 11 months now and we are good for eachother. We both love each other...but lately i have been getting bored with her, even though i still love her i want other women. I am not sure what to do, end it and have fun. Or will i lose something i won't find again??


3 Comments, 150 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Bad HornyWife experience   1/6/2005

I met a man on HornyWife last Summer. I am married, and so is he. We were truthful with each other, and started a relationship. For 3 months, we e-mailed and/or sent text messages every day, and we told each other all sorts of things about ourselves. I was aware that his wife suffers from a psychological illness--in fact, that was something we had in common, as my husband has suffered in the ...


14 Comments, 555 Views, 31 Votes ,2.76 Score
How can people be friends   1/4/2005

Hello here is the question how can people truely be friends after they break up. THe only way that people can be friends and it not be a disfuctional friendship is if both people are in a serious relationship. It seems to always go the person who has someone special in there life wants to stay friends. That is impossible if that other person did not want to relationship to end in the first ...


2 Comments, 161 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_havoc_022 44 F
5  Articles
HELP..   1/4/2005

Is there really an easy way to break up...what if you really do care about the guy but you need time to figure out who you are and you feel you need to do this alone...Is there somehtng wrong with that??and how the hell do you convince them thats really what you need to do not jsut an excuse to break up?


2 Comments, 153 Views, 15 Votes ,2.67 Score
rm_Hard_Guy7 59 M
2  Articles
The Curse of the Net   1/3/2005

The Curse of the Net Having been on and off dating sites and networking sites like this one for the past 2+ years I have come to the conclusion that there is a Blessing / Curse aspect to all of this. <br> The BLESSING is that you can meet some great people from just about anywhere in the world. <br> The CURSE is that after forming a friendship and, in some cases ...


1 Comments, 128 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
The hardest thing is letting go....   1/1/2005

I was with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years when out of nowhere he called and told me that he could no longer see/talk to me. It was a complete shock that I wasn't expecting. We had a great relationship. I mean it was perfect, but nothing ever is. We would argue off and on, but nothing major. When he called and broke up with me he told me it was because he needed to do his own ...


2 Comments, 100 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
knew_byrd 37 F
5  Articles
Trying to Maintain the Friendship after the Breakup   1/1/2005

Me and my boyfriend called it quits after six months but we always promised each other that no matter what happened to our relationship we'd always maintain our friendship. But now he's seeing this other girl and he's asking me advice about her and i don't want to hear about it. Don't get me wrong or anything i want him to be happy and i don't want him back or anything i just don't want to ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_ALfiy2004 32 M
2  Articles
Is cheating bad?   12/30/2004

Ive been in a relationship for almost 3 yrs and while i love her to death, i have this urge to go out and play around with other women. Our relationships can sometimes be on the rocks, but for the most part it has been smooth sailing. Shes a good girl with the best intensions, yet she always has an eye out over my should to see if im ganna cheat on her and has a lot of other relationship ...


3 Comments, 138 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
What to do   12/29/2004

I have been married for a long time, but met a woman on HornyWife a year ago. At first I thought it was just a quick thing, but then I fell in love with this woman. I am not sure what to do at this point, but I know she means more to me than my wife does. I am just lookong for some advice at this point.


7 Comments, 127 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
rm_youngdirty1 40 M
2  Articles
dump her fast   12/28/2004

if you want to break up, just do it right. dont try and be friends, dont talk to her. move on with your life so that you can move on as well. the quicker you stop communicating, the quicker you will forget


1 Comments, 49 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
saltyB32 41 M
2  Articles
WHAT TO DO   12/28/2004

What is the best way to break up with your partner if you have been together for a long time?


1 Comments, 91 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
AesSedai9 45 F
1  Article
Let it go...   12/26/2004

It's not easy to break up with someone you really care about, especially if you know that it's going to hurt them. But, you've done it and you're strangely releived. Finally, as far as you're concerned, it's over. However, you soon discover, the ex just won't let it go. He keeps calling, "just to check in" and he writes you e-mails in which he pathetically explains that he missed your ...


7 Comments, 152 Views, 34 Votes ,3.69 Score
What should I do?!?   12/25/2004

Ok, I've been with this girl for 2 years in February. It was going great for the first year and 6 months, but recently it's been going straight down the shit hole. We have completely stopped having sex, I'm lucky to recieve/give oral every 3-4 weeks, she hits me, makes me do everything that she doesn't want to, verbally abuses me, spends all of my money, and I have no idea what to do. This ...


3 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
larryroger 45 C
1  Article
done   12/24/2004

breacking up is a change of the way you live what you do day to day it, s also a feeling that hurts a feeling that there is a longing there that can, t be found i have never had a good breack uo i don, t think there is one


0 Comments, 60 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_lloyd05 49 M
2  Articles
Good breakup?   12/23/2004

Anybody ever have a good breakup? I dated a girl through highschool and four years of college..Totally in love the entire time we even got engaged our senior year of college. When she came home we realized things had changed and after four years of a long distance relationship we just just weren't cut out to be together ALL the time..Long story short we called it off and stopped seeing each ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
rm_WiccanRider 75 M
4  Articles
Is This What We Want   12/23/2004

In this bed I lie alone, Through stupid acts of years gone by. No loving arms to hold me tight, No head upon my shoulder. My heart cries out for days long gone, And yet, for freedom gained and foolish pride, I accept my life as is and as will be. And in this bed I lie alone.


1 Comments, 89 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
How do you get rid of the ex bf?   12/21/2004

I recently started dating a lady from HornyWife, she has broken up with her boyfriend whom lived with her. He continues to just walk into her home without knocking, and uninvited. I feel like just beating the s**t out of him, but I'm afraid that would just cause her to dislike me and go back to him. He doesn't come there when I'm there.....HELP


4 Comments, 132 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
Breaking up   12/21/2004

So how does everyone cope with breaking up around here, any special way to make it less painfull.


3 Comments, 131 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
Picking up the pieces   12/21/2004

This is going to be just as depressing and pathetic as the rest of these, I'm afraid, so just bear with me. <br> I met my ex 2 years ago after a concert (we both sing). I got the nerve to ask her out to dinner and it went from there. It developed really fast, but from my point of view everything was good. <br> The troubles began over the summer, when, out of classes, ...


2 Comments, 110 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
courtjester04 40 M
7  Articles
Let a break up be a break up.   12/21/2004

Don't call. Don't IM. Don't write. Don't text message. It's never gong to get better. Let it end if it is what you hzve chosen to do.


2 Comments, 141 Views, 26 Votes ,2.81 Score
...it's hard to do   12/20/2004

So, I've learned a hard lesson this last month... sometimes it's true what the song says: "Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough". My guy and I are in love and are crazy about each other, yet we can't get the trust thing down quite right. He thinks I'm off whoring around whenever I'm not with him and I can't do anything to make him think otherwise. I would NEVER cheat on my man... EVER! ...


6 Comments, 150 Views, 53 Votes ,5.46 Score
rm_pitwindsor 58 M
2  Articles
Knowing what to do, not wanting to do it   12/20/2004

After reading through about 6 pages of these for advice I still know not what to do. I have been seeing someone for about 6 months and find I just don't see a future with her. She is a wonderful person and has not really done anything to upset me. Infact, I have never been treated so well. So all I need to do is be honest and communicate this. The problem is that I fear what will happen to ...


5 Comments, 127 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
My disasterous affair with a married man!!!   12/19/2004

I am not married, but, I am embarrassed to say that I was until recently involved with a married man. <br> When Anthony and I became friends I was going through a very rough period. I was lonely, hurt, not to mention depressed. I was healing from a previous relationship. He was a real charmer, and, a really nice person. <br> I have known Anthony for years (though we ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 51 Votes ,6.13 Score
birk23bottom 42 M
1  Article
the ex factor   12/19/2004

Just want advice on what i should do - my ex broke up with me about 4 months ago, after he went travelling to the us/canada for 2 months. we were moving to brisbane, australia together when he got back. well when he got back, we were basically ready to move to brisbane, but he kept delaying me from coming over. so it was about 6 weeks since he returned and i called him up to see what ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
My Dilemma   12/18/2004

Three Months Ago My ex-girlfriend breaks up with me after 1 1/2 years. We Talked here and there & over the last month or so I had not talked to her at all. Well here is the deal she said she called to see what was going on with me & stuff, she also said that her parents have an x-mas present for me and to feel free to come by anytime. As You all know this is the time of year when people ...


6 Comments, 125 Views, 40 Votes ,3.80 Score
Southrn_Com4Urt 46 M
9  Articles
Why is it so hard to break up?   12/18/2004

Over the years I have dated many women and each time I see the relationship is over I find it very hard to break up. Eventually I just wait it out until they do it. Does anyone have any reason why?


2 Comments, 28 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
Best way to forget   12/18/2004

They say the best way is to give your heart time to heal. I say find a fuck buddy. I found another woman within a few days and I totally forgot about a 4 year relationship. Oh, I forgot to mention, try finding someone who is 10 years younger then your X because, it helps and the hotter the better. later give it to god!


4 Comments, 174 Views, 16 Votes ,2.69 Score
What can I do?!?   12/17/2004

About a year ago, I had broke up with my girlfriend of three years. I loved this girl more than life itself. I have never loved anyone like this before and I feel that she still is the one for me. The reason for the break-up was based on an argument that we had that escalated into a fight. Since then she and I have calmed down and we still see each other, but she made it clear that she was ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
Advice Would Be Great   12/16/2004

I recently got through a very emotionaly shattering divorce. The problem is, my ex still wants me in her life, but only on her terms. I still love her, and want to be with her. She wants nothing at all to do with that idea, and wants to simly remain friends. It's tearing me apart to see her when I do, and to know full well that she feels this way. Any advice anyone has would really be ...


4 Comments, 44 Views, 18 Votes ,2.44 Score
be blunt   12/15/2004

the only way to really break up with someone is to be blunt i had the problem of sugar coating everything and i broke up with a girl but everything was still the same i finally had to decide to that it was time to really let her know that she wasnt what i wanted nemore


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Why?   12/14/2004

If someone is in a commited relationship, why would they come here? Is there anything you could do about it, like confront them and get them to stop? How should you approach them? What if they refuse to admit what they're doing even though you have hard and fast proof? Should you tell them how you found out and admit that you've been checking up on them? Ok, I guess I'll be up front ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
rm_chef_nate 37 M
1  Article
harsh treatment   12/14/2004

my ex broke up with me about a month ago. she still calls and text messages and emails, and most of it is to be mean and tell me how horrible the relationship was. she wanted to be friends, and i was okay with that. but now that she knows i date, and i moved on, it's like she's pissed off about it. i don't get it...she wanted to be friends, and that is exactly what i am trying to be to ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
The Militia   12/11/2004

You know it's really a pitty. Not just a few days ago my girlfriend and I were supposed to meet each other and yesterday she got arrested by the militia in London for a ring that she had on her finger, that the militia said was stolen property from 5 years ago and yet I had only sent her that ring by mail last week. So now she is paying the penalty of $1250 or else she will be locked up in ...


4 Comments, 20 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
How do you let her know that she is not the one?   12/11/2004

What is the best way to break up with a girl for another better girl? Especially if you have been in the relationship for over a year, and she is completely attached? <br> any ideas?


4 Comments, 19 Views, 20 Votes ,3.00 Score
rm_kilians2233 34 M
1  Article
It happens to everyone!   12/11/2004

Love comes and goes and everyone sometime in there life experiences a painful breakup. Breakups change a person, sometimes for the best, sometimes for the worst. After breakups people tend to see the mistakes they made when they were blinded by a relationship. Breakups tend to make people want to show the person they love or loved that they are fine and they are over them. People do ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_beckxy747 52 C
3  Articles
"The Rules"   12/10/2004

Don't cheat on your partnet, always be faithful?? <br> Yet some of the most strongest relationships i've seen are where both partners regulary explore themselves sexually outside their relationship, however they both love each other completely. <br> Why do relationships break up?? <br> The most common is Jelousy, a huge emotion that makes us act ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 35 Votes ,4.91 Score
Bad relationship   12/10/2004

I started talking with a man here on HornyWife about a year ago when I lived in Fla. He was in Ga and our chats were hot and interesting. Due to a lot of situations, I moved to Ga and the two of us met face to face and started seeing each other. This went on for over 4 months. Over that period of time, he told me that he had cancer and our relationship did not go much further than hugs, kisses ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 22 Votes ,3.49 Score
Sex after breaking up   12/9/2004

I do agree with the previous author that it's dam good and nice. You after breaking up if you catch up with your ex it will be like a forbiden re-union. Sometimes you don't like the remainder of the community to know, so the funny of it lies in the sense that you will be stealing each other. Will find that these relationships don't die for there is a lot fun


0 Comments, 13 Views, 19 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_PunkBritt6 38 F
0  Articles
Annoyed   12/8/2004

Ok, so i have been dating this guy for a month. During the first week and a half we were exclusive, and it was great. He went on a trip to visit family for 2 weeks. as soon as he left all these opportunities came up to cheat but i didnt. i told him i needed to be able to date other people, and he said it was ok but he didnt want anyone else. so now i fuck other people on the side, and i ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 25 Votes ,3.68 Score
what is the common way to say your not interested?   12/7/2004

Has anyone talked to someone for awhile and just decided they did not like the person anymore. What did you do in this case? New to this site and suggestions would be nice.


3 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
sucks   12/7/2004

pain, lonleyness, hurt, anger, guilt, all part of breaking up in this day and age people tend to date only on money or look's or sex, sad to say noone want's to take time and get to know one another, were all out trying to see what we can get and how fast we can get in some women/man pant's so when it it's over and they do break up some of us are left wondering did i do something wrong i ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
Check this out!!!   12/7/2004

So my girlfriend cathches me playing on HornyWife...never meeting with anyone in person, check checking out a few profiles and pics....she wants to break up...is she right? or should i stop playing around on HornyWife?


6 Comments, 35 Views, 21 Votes
life4fun13 42 M
5  Articles
yes yes yes   12/6/2004

Why is it so hard to break up with someone when they tell us they don't want us in their lives still? This is puzzling me... What do you think?


1 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
ioyou12 52 M
1  Article
Sucks   12/5/2004

This is the hardest part of this site, Knowing when and how to break up. Then, finding out that you would rather be with the person you found on HornyWife then with your spouse. WOW!


1 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
overthewallgrab 45 M
1  Article
Time to Go   11/30/2004

We often wait around so long that the unlucky other begins to stray anyway. Just get it over with and move on. This site will help you do just that.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 15 Votes ,6.19 Score
The hardest thing to do...   11/28/2004

I am going through a separation right now. I wonder how many others are out there just like me. She has left the decision as far as divorce up to me. I've not been happy with our relationship from the day, or night I should say, that we got married. We didn't have sex until marriage, as was the tradition in our families. So, I found out, too late, how bad it really can be. She hates ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 22 Votes ,5.53 Score
kamillianne 44 F
1  Article
My heart cried for months   11/27/2004

I was with my ex for 2 years. We had planned on getting married. I found out that he was lying/screwing around for the duration of our relationship. Even after I found out I was willing to "work" out our problems...he just contined to lie and fuck around. I still hang out with him and sometimes have sex. But the trust is gone...I do not see a future with him. He has since also been "moving ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
whats my deal?   11/27/2004

for some reason, even though weve been broken up for a while, and ive dated a few others, i still cant get over my ex girlfriend. do i miss her or having a commited relationship?


1 Comments, 18 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
hottygirl555324 52 F
10  Articles
Relationships:   11/26/2004

When a relationship ends, a women will cry and pour her heart out to her girlfriends, and she will write a poem, "All Men Are Idiots." Then she will get on with her life. A man has a little more trouble letting go. Six months after the breakup, at 3:00 am on a saturday night, he will call and say, "I just called to let you know you ruined my life, and I'll never forgive you, and I hate you, ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 29 Votes ,4.84 Score
Coming to terms w/the ending of a relationship   11/26/2004

We as humans are habitual creatures, meaning we're used to doing things as a routine. Yes, that means relationships too, we choose mates based on qualities we find attractive or ourselves attracted to. As we progress in relationships, the bond gets more intense. <br> But, the downside to this, when it ends, the bond is severed, there is a pain that resides. Depending on the ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 15 Votes ,6.81 Score
Nfriend2ve 46 F
4  Articles
Why physical abused women stay?   11/25/2004

In the news today a 21 yrs was klled by the husband in the middle of Berlin. It is such a sad thing she is just 21. Surely that was not the first time. <br> Ever wonder why your best friend stay with her abusive husband? sure you do see them everyday at work, classes, shopping, at the doctor or in the street with blue eyes or rimping. Try asking them what happen and you will get ...


2 Comments, 42 Views, 12 Votes ,6.86 Score
o0o0o_lil_o0o0o 34 F
1  Article
EX'S are that for a reason!!   11/25/2004

Why is it that so many people tend to go back to an EX? They are an ex for a reason right? Was it a big mistake to leave them in the first place? Obviously not because at the time there were reasons!! Unless you were the one that got burnt but WHY would you go back to someone after they have dissed you like that? Never look back I say


3 Comments, 59 Views, 40 Votes ,8.59 Score
hottygirl555324 52 F
10  Articles
I Must Walk Alone (Better said with a poem)!!   11/25/2004

I wish that there were two of me, then one could go and the other stay, but there is only one you see... I must be free. I must walk a solitary road each decision must be my own. I need to live...alone. There are so many things in life, my life that I want to see, feel , taste and hear. I must do this on my own. If there could be two of me...I would spend each and everyday in the comfort of ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 13 Votes ,6.67 Score
craftsman1979 44 M
5  Articles
break up   11/23/2004

is there a good way to break up?? how can u be gentil when i say i dont luv u anymore??


1 Comments, 7 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
How??   11/22/2004

How do i tell my boyfriend I am on this site and then i am finding other guys. I still love him but he lives 5 hours away and I wanna just be "best friends" instead. He thinks im still a virgin like he is but i am far from it...


2 Comments, 82 Views, 39 Votes ,8.12 Score
LIes and Disrespect   11/22/2004

This is a true story to a lady named sagit. To be able to forget a condom up inside you then go and see your man of the last 2years and ingage in intercourse only to have him find it is a act of ignoreance and disgust. Thank You Sexysagit for a experinence I wont ever forgive or forget. LuckyLarrooe


0 Comments, 25 Views, 18 Votes ,1.08 Score
squirt2cum4u 59 F
4  Articles
Novel Approach to Breaking Up   11/21/2004

This is what my ex-b/f did to me after an 18-year relationship. He left to go to Europe to teach conversational English classes in Russia! And he has no experience or degree to teach at all! He's a floor covering installer here in the states. <br> So, he leaves me to run his business, take care of the house that's in his name, and is running about Europe having the time of his ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 29 Votes ,7.55 Score
just4sex4awhile 44 M
2  Articles
when you've lost the love of your life   11/16/2004

When I very first saw her I walked up to her and said "You look like an angel. Can I kiss you?" She said "Yes." We were together for 3 yrs from that day. I asked her to marry me and she said yes. But one day out of now where I was thrown out of the house, with nothing. To this day I have no answers of why. I thought things were fine. that day I was on my way to work and she called on my ...


4 Comments, 21 Views, 28 Votes ,5.40 Score
rm_shezamystry 66 F
8  Articles
rainy day yearnings   11/15/2004

Ahhh today is the perfect cuddlefuck day! Bet You would have had fun had You relaxed and had me that way... rain or care this rare should not be wasted. Maybe somebody else, old or new. pleased You better butttt NObody could wish to do so more. As instructed i took Your magic hand and trusted. Hand or trust i cannot now see. Is THIS the safety DaddyShark offered me? <br> Your ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 33 Votes ,5.90 Score
sex   11/15/2004

if you dont get enough sex, dump your partner


2 Comments, 15 Views, 27 Votes ,1.87 Score
SensualVibe69 54 F
1  Article
Do We Have to Be Enemies?   11/15/2004

I always seem to have people mad at me because I am not mad at them when we break up. If something doesn't logically work, but you are obviously connected.....why do you have to be negative towards one another? You just change the nature of the relationship. No love lost, right?


3 Comments, 257 Views, 71 Votes ,8.14 Score
Moving on, when you are forced to and have no other choice!!!   11/15/2004

I just concluded an 8 year relationship with the Angel of my dreams. Yeah, it's heart breaking but this was her decision and trust me, when it's over - it's over and all the cards and flowers will not do anything but waste your time, money, and energy. If you feel that it will help your heart feel better to do this, maybe it will ease some of the the pain. But like I said, you're wasting ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 37 Votes ,8.15 Score
In the Dark   11/14/2004

I went with a man for almost a year that I met thru HornyWife. We had great times together, in and out of the bedroom. Then for no reason that I can think of, he ended it with absolutely NO EXPLANATION whatsoever. He wrote me a "Dear Jane" email and said "Thanks for your friendship. Good luck in the future." To say I was stunned is putting it mildly. I have thought about it off and on for the ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 22 Votes ,7.81 Score
sweetdreams2nite 65 F
3  Articles
what do the members think to this??   11/14/2004

i knew someone, thought we both had it made, would have done anything for him and with him, together 5 yrs.......he asked me to marry him 3 times and twice i went thro with it, for him to pull out at the last minute. not only that, but he stole from me regularly, cheated, lied, loads more, am i in the wrong to say that i still care about him, in one way im not, cos what we did share was ...


3 Comments, 55 Views, 35 Votes ,6.06 Score
Finman1984 39 M
4  Articles
How to overcome   11/14/2004

It is - almost- always hard to overcome such a big thing as a breakup. But what kind of ways there are for it? <br> It takes time. Nothing interests and everything if so dark and colorless.. It's about taking one's time. <br> What kind of ways you have for such a thing as this?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 25 Votes ,7.34 Score
rm_AesRock19 38 M
3  Articles
2 years gone   11/11/2004

yeah so tuesday the 9th she broke up with me, i deserved it i guess....time to move on


3 Comments, 11 Views, 29 Votes ,7.05 Score
when life throughs you a curve   11/9/2004

My wife and I have been together for three years and things were going good untill the burth of our . He was born with Mecomun aspiration sydronome, (when a fetus has a bowe movement before they are born) and we almost lost him. For some reason after that we have been on a rocky road ever since. We have sat down a talked untill the cows came home about our problems but to no avail. ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 34 Votes ,7.73 Score
No strings?   11/8/2004

We met on line and hit it off right from the get go. She love to give oral and I loved to receive it! We met twice for 4 hours each time. Both of us had multiple orgasms and it was great. I told her my wife was getting a little suspect, and I wanted a little time. Now she treats me like the plaque! I will never understand why a "no strings" relationship has so many strings. Why can't it ...


4 Comments, 20 Views, 20 Votes ,7.08 Score
It takes two.... but you are all you need!   11/8/2004

My boyfriend and I were in a relationship recently for over 5 years. It started out as a codependent, abusive and jealous relationship. When we became pregnant (surprise) we started to improve ourselves. I would take 5 steps ahead and then when he fell backwards he would end up dragging me with him. Back and forth and back and forth. <br> We both enables eachother to wallow in ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 44 Votes ,8.51 Score
posey02 33 M
1  Article
you have to keep good w/ex   11/8/2004

I broke up 4 yrs ago and still get pussy calls! At least once a month the ex is on the line. Since then I havent had a girl friend but plenty of grils. but for some feason the ex is always fun and easy, no bull shit movie and date, just straight hook up and fuck. so dont be sad to break up make good whit it. <br> Bong hit 420 blueberry says.


2 Comments, 4 Views, 37 Votes ,6.88 Score
2serveyu 37 M
1  Article
break up sex   11/6/2004

what do you say when a girl doesnt want to drop it of 1 more time thats what you dont want you wanna play it out and try have a friendly break up that way you can hit it 1 last time and finally youll be able to blow your load on her face and all in her mouth


0 Comments, 18 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
rm_surfie_guy 40 M
2  Articles
How to break up?   11/5/2004

Wondering what is the best way to break up with this girl i've been seeing? Over the phone, sms, or in person are my options. I don't awnt to see or hear her cry so i'm thinking sms is the best way? what does everyone else think?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
Love Sucks   11/4/2004

Well Ive been single for about 3 and a half years but here is why ive been so. When i was with my last girlfriend we were going out for about 3 months. One day i got off work earlier than what i told her to suprise her at her appartment to show her some affection. When i went home to shower and change i heard some disturbing noises from my own bedroom. Needless to say i knew what they ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 29 Votes ,6.55 Score
Why the complete turnaround   11/3/2004

I was going out with this guy for a couple of months.. he had split up last Decemeber with ex-girlfriend.. and moved to other end of country they were still friends.. He kept saying he really liked me.. sex was great.. I am told Im very attractive and good in bed and nice person.. not big headed at all opposite but dont have trouble meeting people. He kept saying things like buy a house ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 17 Votes ,6.52 Score
say hello, say no thanks, say goodbye ffs!   11/3/2004

HELLO/GOODbye Common Courtesy.. <br> my autoreply suggests that a nonresponse might be my response-nonetheless usually i reply with a hi or no thanks (no explanation necessary--but block is at times) <br> when someone comes into a room, real or cyberchat, i say hello ( in chat with a bit of info re myself similar to asl) <br> when it is time to stop.. ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 16 Votes ,6.21 Score
scaring...   11/2/2004

Breaking up, of course, takes its toll on both sides of the prior relationship. The few things I learned is that a scare will always remain, but it will lessen and be controllable; there is always something positive to gain from the relationship and one must always move forward.


1 Comments, 9 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
Time 4 a change   11/1/2004

Best thing to do after a break up and find a hottie and fuck them regularly for a few weeks. By then you've forgotten your ex and can move on.


1 Comments, 18 Views, 21 Votes ,4.12 Score
69josh 47 M
3  Articles
I just broke up with a girl   10/31/2004

What is the best way to break up with someone. I dont even know how to handle a break up myself much less make it easier on the other person. Can anyone give me advice on either. Ihave dated the girl for 2 years and we are not working out.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 20 Votes ,5.04 Score
rm_duffryder 33 M
2  Articles
divorce   10/28/2004

so my brother just got married, my parents are getting divorced, the only girl i love is marrying my best friend and is moving away soon...does anyone else think that's all a bit much?


2 Comments, 6 Views, 56 Votes ,6.63 Score
breaking up is hard to do   10/28/2004

what are some really good ways to break up with crazy (literally) girlfriends, without having them commit suicide (literally)?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
When to let go   10/26/2004

This is unique story and I think I tell it for closure. I actually plan to make it a book some day. My best friend was my childhood sweetheart as well. We have been friends for 20 years as well as on again off again. He was always there for me. Even when he was too blind to see that I was ready to be with him, I accepted this and let him go on with his life. He got married. She was so ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 41 Votes ,7.55 Score