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Life Will Go On
 
Life Will Go On
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Private Messages to Me
Posted:Apr 14, 2012 7:23 am
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2020 12:07 pm
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Relationships ~ Being Happy In One
Posted:Feb 5, 2011 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2021 2:16 am
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Relationship is very tricky. Tensions build up over time and one day both the partners cannot bear the stress of the relationship and give it up. After that they keep thinking about why that happened. Why not secure the relationship right from the beginning. Every relationship will have pluses and minuses. Our objective should be to build the pluses. The minuses will then become insignificant. What are the factors that may positively influence a relationship? Let us write them down.

Maintain awareness of feelings of each other.

If you are trying to be perfect, do not do that. That causes stresses. Accept that both of you are imperfect.

Talking about breakup up in heat of the moment is wrong. One should rather avoid talking about breaking up altogether. Avoid discussing about any break up your friends have. Do not focus on any negative. Focus on positives.

Be compassionate towards each other. Take care of the mood swings and do not create tension over small things. Try to ease the atmosphere. Show care towards other person.

Lying about anything should be absolute no. Do not even try to hide things. Be totally open about everything. Never develop any trust deficit.

If something was better for you in the past and is not so in the present, avoid saying so.

Always end the day on a happy note. Do not let any misunderstanding open at the end of the day. Clear up all the mess and apologize if needed.

Know all about your partner’s likes and dislikes. If there is a conflict between what you like and what your partner likes, discuss that openly. Surrender if required. Ego in small matters never helped any one. You will feel better if you give happiness to your partner.

Go by your good instinct. Avoid thinking and dwelling upon negatives. Think of the world as a good place and your relationship as a great one.
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Relationships ~ Trust
Posted:Jan 28, 2011 9:49 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2011 9:57 pm
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This is a common problem. All of us are looking for trustworthy partners but many of us get into relationships where our partner cheats us. How to know if your partner is trustworthy?

What I am saying here may sound very simple but is also very useful. Please observe your partner in all his/her transactions, discussions and work with others. If he/she behaves in a deceitful manner or does not care about small lies then be careful. A person’s character remains the same. A person who is today behaving differently with you than he/she behaves with others can one day behave the same with you also. Her/his essential and true character will surely reveal one day. Better not wait for that day. Break up as soon as possible rather than getting cheated in future.

Trust means to believe. I trust you, means I have no doubt in my mind about your honesty, integrity and credibility. No relationship can survive without trust. How to develop and keep the trust in a relationship forever, because as soon as the trust breaks, the relationship breaks. Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. If you don’t trust a person, howsoever you may love him/her, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in him/her.

Let us examine this little more. To begin with, every relationship begins with trust in each other. Without the initial trust, the relationship will not move in the beginning itself. In the beginning, one believes without much proof about the others character. It is love and some assessment of how trustworthy the person is. As the relationship grows, fissures start forming because of doubts about whether the other person can be trusted? Was he/she trustworthy from the beginning or was I fooled? Or is he/she changing now? This kind of doubtful thinking causes tremendous strain in a relationship and with the breaking of trust, the relationship breaks.

How do you manage to build the trust in the earlier period is most important. The beginning can be very dangerous. What may arouse suspicion should be avoided at all the costs. If you have a suspicious partner, you need to be more careful. Small things such as if you are going out, inform where you are going and to meet whom? If there is a change in your mood, talk to your partner and talk about the reasons. If you are facing career problems, rather than hiding them, tell about them to your partner and seek support. Many a times, you will behave differently when you face career issues and that may make your partner think about all types of possibilities. Be open about everything. Your words and body language should be synchronous at all the times. Inform about everything and if not fully possible assure your partner that things are going differently and you are under pressure. Be open. Seek trust and you will get it.
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Relationships ~ Commitment
Posted:Jan 28, 2011 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2012 5:27 am
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Relationship
Every relationship has its pluses and minuses. For a strong relationship that satisfies both the partners, you have to consider yourself, your partner and the character of the relationship. If you manage to get into a relationship with the right person, you can have a long trouble-free journey.

How important is commitment in relationships? Well of course it differs from person to person. For some commitment phobics being committed in a relationship would mean the sabotage of personal freedom, lack of independence and space, bidding goodbye to friends and the exciting world of dating. However, it is only the ones who are in for serious relationships who understand the real importance of commitment in a relationship.

Commitment is a silent promise to be there forever and through all odds. It is the lifeline of your relationship. The stronger the commitment, the stronger the relationship. It is a stage when all the Is in the relationship are replaced with we’s. It is the stage when all the traces of doubt and distrust are wiped out. It is the time when you are acknowledged as a part of your partner’s life. It also is a way to show how much you care about them. The most common reasons why people are commitment phobic are inability to stay faithful, bad past experiences, not wanting to settle down, they don’t love the person enough, etc. Relationships without commitment is like food without salt. It satisfies your hunger, but is tasteless. A relationship without commitment seems okay for a while. But, at some point in time it feels pointless and loses the zest and excitement that it once had. If you don’t have a future with the person you are seeing, you definitely don’t have a present as well. The feeling of having someone whom you could call your own, fuss over or take for granted to be with you forever is truly priceless. In the absence of this, life can indeed get very lonely.

It does not mean that you get committed to almost anyone. Commitment is a matter of time. Trust takes time to build. All relationships are not always meant to be. However, if you always keep the door of your heart closed you will never be able to experience the joys of falling in love. Take your time to get to know a person. But when you finally do, don’t be afraid to fall in love. Don’t sit back and adjudicate every second person who comes your way. Give them a chance. Love is a beautiful feeling and unless you promise to give it your all, it is not possible to truly experience it.
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A Step You Cant Take Back
Posted:Oct 9, 2014 8:13 am
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2016 3:16 pm
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So you find yourself at this subway
With your world in a bag by your side
And all at once it seemed like a good way
You realize it's the end of the line
For what it's worth

Here comes the train upon the track
And there goes the pain, it cuts to black
Are you ready for the last act?
To take a step you can't take back?

Taken all the punches you could take
Took 'em all right on the chest
Now the camel's back is breaking
Again, again
For what it's worth

Here comes the train upon the track
And there goes the pain, it cuts to black
Are you ready for the last act?
To take a step you can't take back?

Did she love you?
Did she take you down?
Was she on her knees when she kissed your crown?
Tell me what you found

Here comes the rain, so hold your hat
And don't pray to God, 'cause He won't talk back
Are you ready for the last act?
To take a step you can't take back, back, back?
You can't take back, back, back.

So you find yourself at this subway
With your world in a bag by your side
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Lost Stars
Posted:Oct 9, 2014 8:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2024 11:20 am
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Please don't see
Just a boy caught up in dreams and fantasies
Please see me
Reaching out for someone I can't see

Take my hand, let's see where we wake up tomorrow
Best laid plans sometimes are just a one night stand
I'll be damned, Cupid's demanding back his arrow
So let's get drunk on our tears

And God, tell us the reason youth is wasted on the young
It's hunting season and the lambs are on the run
Searching for meaning
But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?

Who are we?
Just a speck of dust within the galaxy?
Woe is me
If we're not careful turns into reality

But don't you dare let our best memories bring you sorrow
Yesterday I saw a lion kiss a deer
Turn the page, maybe we'll find a brand new ending
Where we're dancing in our tears

And God, tell us the reason youth is wasted on the young
It's hunting season and the lambs are on the run
We're searching for meaning
But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?

and I thought I saw you out there crying
and I thought I heard you call my name
and I thought I heard you out there crying
But just the same

And God, give us the reason youth is wasted on the young
It's hunting season and the lambs are on the run
searching for meaning
But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?

And I thought I saw you out there crying
And I thought I heard you call my name
And I thought I heard you out there crying
But are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
Are we all lost stars trying to light up the dark?
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Love Someone
Posted:Jul 17, 2014 6:30 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2014 6:43 am
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Love is a funny thing
Whenever I give it, it comes back to me
And it's wonderful to be giving with my whole heart as my heart
receives
Your love,ain't it nice
Tonight we've got each other
And I am right beside you
More than just a partner or a lover
I'm your friend

When you love someone
Your heart beat beats so loud
When you love someone
Your feet can't feel the ground

shining stars all seem to congregate around your face
When you love someone
It comes back to you

In love; is a funny thing
It's making my blood flow with energy
And it's life, an awaken dream
It's what I've been wishing for, it's happening

It's right on time
ain't it nice this life, we've got each other
And I am right beside you
More than just a partner or a lover
I'm your friend

When you love someone
Your heart beat beats so loud
When you love someone
Your feet can't feel the ground

shining stars all seem to congregate around your face
When you love someone,When you love someone

We're gonna give ourselves to love tonight
Lifting up to touch the starlight
That we will say for every second we suspend together
You and I will,You and I will,You and I will

When you love someone
Your heart beat beats so loud
When you love someone
Your feet can't feel the ground

shining stars all seem to congregate around your face
When you love someone
It comes back to you
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As I Lay Me Down
Posted:Mar 31, 2014 5:40 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2024 11:20 am
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It felt like springtime on this February morning
In the courtyard birds were singing your praise
I'm still recalling things you said to make me feel alright
I carried them with me today, Now

As I lay me down to sleep
This I pray
That you will hold me dear
Though I'm far away
I'll whisper your name into the sky
And I will wake up happy

I wonder why I feel so high
Though I am not above the sorrow
Heavy hearted
Till you call my name
And it sounds like church bells
Or the whistle of a train
On a summer evening
I'll run to meet you
Barefoot barely breathing

It's not too near for me
Like a flower I need the rain
Though it's not clear to me
Every season has its change
And I will see you
When the sun comes out again
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How Long Will I Love You
Posted:Mar 26, 2014 6:32 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2016 11:30 am
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How long will I love you
As long as stars are above you
And longer if I can

How long will I need you
As long as the seasons need you
Follow their plan

How long will I be with you
As long as the sea is bound to
Our ship on the sound

How long will I want you
As long as you want me to
And longer by far

How long will I hold you
As long as your father told you
As long as you can

How long will I give to you
As long as I live through you
For ever long you stay

How long will I love you
As long as stars are above you
And longer if I may

"We are traveling through time together, Every day of our lives, All we can do is do our best ,To relish this remarkable ride together ."
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The Wrong Direction
Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2024 11:20 am
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When I was a , the things I did were hidden under the grid
Young and naive, I never believed that love could be so well hid
With regret I'm willing to bet, and say the older you get
It gets harder to forgive and harder to forget
It gets under your shirt like a dagger at work
The first cut is the deepest but the rest still flipping hurt
You build your heart of plastic
Get cynical and sarcastic
And end up in the corner on your own

'Cos I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection
I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection
I thought I was close but under further inspection
It seems I've been running in the wrong direction

So what's the point in getting your hopes up
When all you're ever getting is choked up
When you're coked up
And can't remember the reason why you broke up
You call her in the morning
When you're coming down and falling
Like an old man on the side of the road
'Cos when you're apart you don't want to mingle
When you're together you want to be single
Ever the chase to taste the kiss of bliss
That made your heart tingle
How much greener the grass is
With those rose tinted glasses
But the butterflies they flutter by and leave us on our arses

'Cos I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection
I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection
I thought I was close but under further inspection
It seems I've been running in the wrong direction
There's fish in the sea for me to make a selection
I'd jump in if it wasn't for my ear infection
'Cos all I want to do is try to make a connection
It seems I've been running in the wrong direction

Oh, I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection
I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection
I thought I was close but under further inspection
It seems I've been running in the wrong direction
I'd love to feel love but I can't stand the rejection
I hide behind my jokes as a form of protection
I thought I was close but under further inspection
It seems I've been running in the wrong direction, ohh
It seems like I'm running in the wrong direction, ohh
Seems like I'm running in the wrong direction, ohh
Well, it seems I've been running in the wrong direction, oh no
Seems I've been running in the wrong direction, oh
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Let Her Go
Posted:Sep 20, 2013 11:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2024 11:20 am
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Well you only need the light when its burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go

Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow and they go so fast

You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day you'll understand why
Everything you touch surely dies

But you only need the light when its burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go

Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
Cos love comes slow and it goes so fast

Well you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
Cos you loved her too much and you dived too deep

Well you only need the light when its burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
And you let her go
Well you let her go

Cos you only need the light when its burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go

Cos you only need the light when its burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
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Because Of You
Posted:Jul 21, 2013 8:32 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2013 7:10 am
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I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did,
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid!

I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with

I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing

Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid

Because of you
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Just Give Me A Reason
Posted:Mar 31, 2013 7:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2013 8:29 pm
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Right from the start
You were a thief
You stole my heart
And I your willing victim
I let you see the parts of me
That weren't all that pretty
And with every touch you fixed them
Now you've been talking in your sleep
Things you never say to me
Tell me that you've had enough
Of our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
We're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

I'm sorry I don't understand
Where all of this is coming from
I thought that we were fine
Oh we had everything
Your head is running wild again
My dear we still have everythin'
And it's all in your mind
Yeah but this is happenin'
You've been havin' real bad dreams
You used to lie so close to me
There's nothing more than empty sheets
Between our love, our love
Oh our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
I never stopped
You're still written in the scars on my heart
You're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

Oh tear ducts and rust
I'll fix it for us
We're collecting dust
But our love's enough
You're holding it in
You're pouring a drink
No nothing is as bad as it seems
We'll come clean

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
That we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
That we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
Oh, we can learn to love again
Oh, we can learn to love again
Oh oh, that we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again.
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