We are an average couple looking for friends to go out with. We sometimes go to casinos and like outdoor activities. We would like to meet other couples for dinner and going places with. Sex may or may not happen, depending on the friendship that develops. We have never tried swinging before, although we did come close one time. We went over to a co-workers house to play cards and maybe get involved. My friend and I had showed each other pictures of our wives. We each wanted to have sex with the other's wife but it just didn't happen. And we never got a chance to try again. She would have to be eased into it. Like a chance encounter somewhere and let thing develope from there. Ideal situation would be to accidentally meet at say a flea market or public place set up by the men and start a conversation as if we had just met.