"He who becomes the slave of habit, who follows the same routes every day, who never changes pace, who does not risk and change the colour of his clothes, who does not speak and does not experience, dies slowly. He or she who shuns passion, who prefers black on white, dotting ones rather than a bundle of emotions, the kind that make your eyes glimmer, that turn a yawn into a smile, that make the heart pound in the face of mistakes and feelings, dies slowly. He or she who does not turn things topsy-turvy, who is unhappy at work, who does not risk certainty for uncertainty, to thus follow a dream, those who do not forego sound advice at least once in their lives, die slowly. Let’s try and avoid death in small doses, always reminding oneself that being alive requires an effort by far greater than the simple fact of breathing. Only a burning patience will lead to the attainment of a splendid happiness." PABLO NERUDA Transported by this lyrical exhortation, you immediately decide to divorce and resign ... not ! But we can always dream of a secret garden. I'm rather handsome, I look much younger than my age. I am rather athletic, but I can think too. I love words. Married with two children, I am looking for a relationship with a thin and educated partner, if possible over the long term, for moments of sensuality and intimacy - and fun, while remaining discreet, and without compromising the rest.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a relationship preferably over the long term, with a partner with a thin body or a nice face - mutual attraction is a must, open-minded, and preferably married and willing to preserve her couple, but looking for a secret garden, another life, other experiences, other feelings.