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Usually the man, but we'll be fair about it if they see each other regularly. One gets dinner, the other gets hotel, or vice versa.
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I did say that a man should pay. But it would be nice if we could split the cost of a room.
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I always did.
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Anytime a guy wants to play with me if he cant come to me and he wants to get a hotel i will let him LadyTeddieBear
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I am a bit old fashioned and don't mind at all paying for the hotel. It is always refreshing if the lady wants to show her appreciation by paying for a light dinner or by bringing her A game to the encounter. I never like to eat a big meal if we are going to be playing. Pussy tastes better than cake and nothing is quite as good as the taste of a passionate kiss after I've cum in her mouth or eaten her.
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I'm old fashioned..but always have paid for a comfortable hotel room..
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5/19/2015 11:42 am |
I only said split because the answer I want isn't there. To me who ever set the hook up up, should pay for the room. But then again seeing I am abit old fashion, I most likely would pay.
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5/19/2015 7:33 pm |
The man or split it. The woman is already taking a big risk being there. Shut up and fuck me.
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Call me old fashion, but I have always footed the bill for an evening with a FM or a CPL, especially if it's our first encounter. Unless, if thee CPL offered too.
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I almost always pay, a pleasant surprise if she wants to help
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they both want the same thing, so why not split the bill
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I am not sure the majority of men would spend the money to have a safe and comfortable hotel setting. I expect a lot in an encounter one being a good hotel in a safe area which takes into account who will visit the hotel, how the parking lot is noticed and how I will feel slinking and sashaying my way in way too high heels through the lobby or to the bar/lounge. Often I find its best to prepare people for your expectations unless you do not mind meeting in a Super 8 or Holiday Inn Express. When I want to meet I want to put myself on display for the encounter. I want my partner(s) to anticipate the experience and enjoy the show that warms them up. I too want to be in a place that allows me to express my sensuality without encountering neighbors going there for a quickie or a working there. I do however want a place where I can feel comfortable wearing Louboutin heels a tight short dress that augments my ass and breasts and where I can wear my long hair looking as slutty as I can prepare without looking like a $2.00 whore during Fleet Week in NYC. While looking all slutty for a Super 8 encounter may be fun at times I usually will opt for a different experience we both can enjoy. So the hotel thing can be a minefield which has benefits if one talks through expectations first and pays a premium for premium experiences. [image] Just my two cents. Oh yeah the man or dominant woman almost always pays...and brings gifts if I am the good or bad girl he desires. I did make a housewife I met pay for a seedy room in an urban area of town dressed like a street walker once...but that is another story.
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The few times I've done it, I have paid for it myself. But it would be nice to split once in awhile lol.
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5/21/2015 1:17 pm |
I have done the man up thing, but they were one time onlys thank ^%$. My hopes are, if I do find someone to meet regularly, that we could share the expenses, or find a better solution to the problem
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i would always pay. even if she wanted to i wouldnt allow her to split.
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Maybe it is old fashioned but as in any situation I think that it would be my responsibility to take care of any costs incurred. It would be the least I could do and wouldn't think of it being any other way. Would any man ask a woman to dinner then expect her to pay for her part of the bill? Not in my world.
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We connect with guys. If a hotel is our only option we prefer for him to pay. We look at is as we're bringing the entertainment so he can pay for the room.
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It depends on resources and equity. if the man has more financial resources, it makes sense that he pay. If the woman has more resources, then it makes more sense for her to pay. If both have about the same financial resources, then it seems to make more sense to take turns paying.
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I would say man but on occasion she would pay or we would split if it was a reoccurring meeting with the same woman or couple for that.
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1 post 5/28/2015 8:12 am |
Should depend on the circumstances
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5/29/2015 1:23 pm |
normally i would say the man or split it. the last time my wife went out to play with her friend he fucked her so good that she paid for everything.
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voted split for the reason who ever is inviting should pay.
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the man should pay , its only gentlemanly to do so , ,(especially the first time) nothing to do with being a golddigger , they need to stop treating woman as easy fucks and treat with respect .. dont say shes the tramp and you at the same hotel doing the same fucking thing .. respect consideration and treating woman as special beings and i guarentee you will have a better time . its true , since sex got easier to get ... love got harder to find -- fucking is grand but i prefer a lil courtship -- im not into that fuck-n-go routine..
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Either way, I would pay ...no problem for a Woman and I. In a group, usually a split.
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the first few couple of times I would pay but down the road I think we should compromise of splitting
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I usually foot the bill. If I can't we make some kind of arrangement or reschedule.
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