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Oh maaaaaaannnn, This sucks for her. And yes, I know that I have wanted to bear my children's burdens for them and I know I can't. To learn to bear your burden, you become stronger. But why does it seem that witnessing your kids struggling doesn't make us stronger? sigh. I'm thinking really positive thoughts for Pidgey ... and for you! Kaka Head The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Pidgey can do it! And you too! Warmest wishes, positive energy and thoughts, and many big hugs are coming your way ...
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It sucks for both of you but so much more for her. You have made it through such times with a kid too. She has a great role model and no doubt her head knows she can do it but the rest of her is shaky. In some ways I bet it is harder for you as you feel her hurts as well as your old ones. Damn, having kids is not easy. At least she knows she has you to talk to and long distance is free. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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That sounds so hard. especially for a mother to see her child going thru that. all you can do is keep giving her your support. sending best energy I have so you two can make all this work. hugs to you and your daughter. I understand very well about feeling lonely at night. my bf is gone for over 3 months. and night after night I think of him. some nights are very long. I miss the man. all tho I tried my best to get distracted. can't get him out of my head. especially when night falls.
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I wish I could, all the time. I'm so sorry. Ugh, I'm so sorry.. Live life to it's fullest! If you're bored, Read Hugs Gypsy
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I'm sure you will be calling her in the evenings to lighten things up a bit, maybe sing her a song. Recall some of the good times, maybe tell her about your chicken battles. Vive La Difference
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I can't show you, but I can tell you.....I'm sending positive thoughts!!
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Still you aren't alone. even when you feel alone there are people who care for you, whether you know it or not. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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She has to come to term that her life is about her not him, hell it will take time, some it take longer, but hopefully with your support she will get thur this, being alone isn't fun when you are use to being with someone all the time, and so many things are going to remind you of your time with that person, it is going to be a learning process,
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It hurts but in the end it will let her realize how strong she really is. It will just take a while to get there. Hugs Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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You sound like a great Mom. Best wishes for both of you.
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Pidgey will be so glad this move is happening- she just cannot see it right now. There is a lot of love and hugs from here helping her on her way to a new freedom (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Of course I always want to bear my children's burdens for them....it's impossible and I all I can do is be there for them which I'm sure Pidgey knows you are. I am reminded of my own early failed love....I married at 18 and was divorced by 24. Love that goes sour at such an early age is hard but she will get over it...believe me. ~~Anais Nin~~
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8/30/2016 6:44 am |
Yes when You raise a Daughter one goes through these rough times,,I wish the best for the both of You..I also wanted to thank you for being a great blogger as slowpoke requested We do.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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Adulting sucks. Big hugs for you both as you get through this roughness.
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A Mother's Love that's what we all do..
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nothing like the night to make the sorrow suck the marrow right out of your bones. i'm praying for Pidgey. she's got her mama In her....she'll do fine but the first couple of months just drill you down so low..... keep sending her silly things, stupid silly things.........the more inane the better. a crazy mama is a good thing at times like this You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Still sending gooey Satyr goodness. I know that feeling all too well. You start by wanting to teach them everything so that they don't have to learn the lessons the hard way. And you try to protect them and take the pain of their burdens. And in the end you watch them fall, hopefully just a little, so that they can learn to get back up again on their own, while you're there with an outstretched hand just in case they need it. Love you, B. Satyr in Sheep's Skin Peruse my many stories at Satyr39s Storybook Corner or my Renaissance Era BDSM fantasy story at Serial Story Reinport39s Crowning Index.
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The first time for that type of break-up just sucks...and more so at night when the world is still and quiet. If you listen hard enough you can hear the little pieces of your heart breaking off. It just sucks. But you've raised a smart, resourceful and tough young woman. She'll make it through....as will her mom. Sending out positive and healing energy for both of you...
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SnuggleBuni41 replies on 8/30/2016 8:23 pm: Thanks JAM I'm feeling much better today and Pidgey is too. -------------------------------- Awesome sauce! I love that you have one another! Your strength is a warm ray of sunshine. Satyr in Sheep's Skin Peruse my many stories at Satyr39s Storybook Corner or my Renaissance Era BDSM fantasy story at Serial Story Reinport39s Crowning Index.
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Hugs Buni. I know the feeling.... It's hard to see people we love not doing well, and yeah, I wish I could take on other's burdens all the time. I know kids need to grow up and learn the hard lessons and ll that...but it is sooo hard to see them suffer.
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I think most parents want to take their children's hurts away. I know it was always hard to see our children hurt, from a fall off a bike to the first broken heart. It is hard to see them as lessons in life when we see the pain they feel. I know I was that way with my children as well. All we can do is be there and encourage and love them.
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